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  • Tara0

    email her, don't ask her out. think of something that you 2 may have in common. or just be normal say it was really nice to meet you etc etc
    if she responds you can ask to meet up, try to think of something where she doesn't feel like it's a huge commitment like 1 drink.
    this way she can see how it goes and will more likely say yes. a movie night w wines sounds like a bit too much for a first meeting.

    • I like this idea.Jaline
    • i like the movie with wine idea instead of coffee and talking. makes it more of an actual event and something to look forward to._salisae_
    • forward to. plus i'd feel like i were being swooned and not treated typically._salisae_
    • I would prefer a movie, but I think other girls like talking?Jaline
    • i guess it depends on the girl. i would think if she's english she is used to going out for a drink but she may find it refreshing to be asked out on a proper date. do we have you utterly confused now?Tara
    • good point.Jaline

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