question for asians
question for asians
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- Jaline0
"I think people sometimes get the wrong impression when they're like, 'Oh, well, so-and-so was straight and then she was gay, and now she's straight again,' you know? But it's like, how many times do I have to kiss a woman before I'm gay? Everybody wants to label people. Sometimes you just fall in love with somebody, and you're really not thinking about what gender or whatever they happen to be. I think that if I happen to fall in love with a woman, everyone's going to make a big deal out of it. But if I happen to fall in love with a man, nobody cares."
- < Lucy Liu said that.Jaline
- thought you were just venting:Dukit
- haha, I knew someone would think I said it. Hmm..may as well have.Jaline
- do you think you could fall in love with a woman, jaline?_salisae_
- Maybe. I have no idea yet.Jaline
- I'm not closing it off while I'm young.Jaline
- hmmm....i like where this is headed:Dukit
- not that older people should close it off.....eh, just ignore me.Jaline
- I've said too much :)Jaline
- But, anyway, I found it interesting that she said this. Because I can't recall any relationship info about her.Jaline
- One of my best girlfriends just admitted to her love for women. She's now dating someone. I've never seen her so happy._salisae_
- hahaha. As long as you’re happy. (I wish I had a dollar for every time you said “I’ve said too much”)MrOneHundred
- she regrets not having accepted her feelings earlier._salisae_
- Hmm...is that the one who was all over you before? I can't remember. Anyway, I like guys too, as if that wasn't obvious :)Jaline
- What I mean is, I recall you talking about someone who was very touchy-feely (more than usual) w/ female friends.Jaline
- haha, MrOneHundred, I'm bi.Jaline
- I don't like to label myself, but ppl don't get it otherwise (although most ppl see bisexuality as a joke).Jaline
- Well, you double your chances for “IT” right there.MrOneHundred
- hhahaha, what a common misconception (although I tell myself that all the time)Jaline
- I'm getting all warm (not in the pervy way....in the revelation way) now. I have never revealed this stuff here...(even though it's obvious)Jaline
- obvious).
*calm downJaline - I don't believe in 'bi'. imo It's a cop out for the people too afraid to accept that they're totally queer._salisae_
- hahaha, thanks, Shari :)Jaline
- Don't believe I've mentioned her before. I love her to death though._salisae_
- I just have a way of knowing....Jaline
- Alright, nevermind then (regarding your friend).Jaline
- I say “go for it”!MrOneHundred
- Guys are always OK with it ;)Jaline
- *tells self this all goes towards therapyJaline
- this deserves its own thread, dammitukit
- Also, salisae, bisexuality is a scientifically proven factukit
- she tried the bi thing too for years but it made her hate herself and she felt gross after being with men b/c she had no emotional attachment_salisae_
- emotional attachment_salisae_
- ummm...no, we've had threads for this before.Jaline
- not directly, but somehow they end up that way.Jaline
- I can see that happening, Shari. But I'm not an emotional person. I like distance, so we'll see how it works out.Jaline
- Remember that one time i mentioned how I would even prefer separate beds sometimes (not always)?Jaline
- Short of it: I like my freedom, hehJaline
- Wow. This has really gone off on a tangent. I didn’t have you pegged as non-emotional.MrOneHundred
- OK, wait. I think we had this conversation before. You're emotional, right, Mr100?Jaline
- I vaguely recall you discussing how ppl tell you you're too emotional sometimes. I get the opposite said to me.Jaline
- Ah, yes, you’re right. Wow. I feel stupid.MrOneHundred
- i remember. i think you're mistaking non-emotional for introversion. i like my space as well but i feel things for ppl_salisae_
- nah, it's fine. Plus, I think we're getting disoriented from this massive note ;)Jaline
- I don't know. I'm weird. Sometimes I am emotional (which I don't reveal, so it's actually introversion), but otherJaline
- times I am very distant from others.Jaline
- okay going out for drinks. just wanted to share her experience with you, jaline._salisae_
- So you're probably partly right, Shari. I don't feel bad for people as much as society believes I should.Jaline
- you'll grow emotionally stronger, especially once you move away from your parents._salisae_
- Thanks, Shari.Jaline
- Honestly, a lot of times I post that I feel bad for someone here and I don't know them, so I don't actually feel that bad...Jaline
- I have to REALLY know someone to give them honest advice or sympathy.Jaline
- I can handle you being introverted much more than non-emotional. But I said that last time, I think.MrOneHundred
- I think the two are a bit tied together, at least for me. Because outsiders don't know how you actually feel either wayJaline
- How about we just say I have no clue how to empathize outwardly with ppl.Jaline
- Longest note ever?
;)Jaline - I think so. Empathy is underrated. But the “Honestly” thread obviously resonated for you?MrOneHundred
- A little cheesy for my liking, and I still can't connect with Patrick's case in the way I wish I could, but I liked the thread.Jaline
- What I mean is, I'm never sure what to say in the Patrick threads. It's almost like it doesn't that much to me :/Jaline
- I think I need some tragedy in my life before I can fully understand this stuff, as horrible as that sounds.Jaline
- I understand.MrOneHundred
- thanks, I guess. I wish I could connect to this stuff more...maybe I had some children trauma...Jaline
- I believe you will, you wouldn’t still be here 63 notes in if there were no hope for it.MrOneHundred
- *childhoodJaline
- hahaa, touché, Mr100Jaline
- All this scrolling is making me dizzy.MrOneHundred
- I know. Let's stop now :)Jaline