Breakup Advice
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- moogoo0
Codfather, believe me when I say that 27 is probably one of the most difficult in-between ages that people get to - ahead of you you just see the staid married life that you had drawn so much of your teen and early twenties identity from, you start to question those attitudes of mature rebellion and 'freedom' that you have spent the last 10 years honing, and cant see any happy way to transition, hell - you don't want to become what it is you perceive being properly grown up (30), to be..
But honestly mate, for me certainly, 30 was a great milestone, to get to 30 with 10 years of a meaningful relationship behind you would just be fantastic I think - you're really not going to change much in the next 5 years, if you're happy now, be glad and look forward to tomorrow, next year/5 years ahead will take care of itself, if you love this girl, and you feel loved then run with it, the single life is one that people remember through rose colored specs, forgetting that it was more often than not drinking and socialising to try and meet someone to counter the lonliness of sleeping and being alone, however fun that process was..
Just dont confuse your relationship for your own individual existential angst, talk and grow together, and then decide.
mikotondria2
(Aug 16 07, 16:51)well said. *tear*