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The only response is to give her her space. All of it. Even if you are not prepared to accept the reality that is noted under items 1 and 2, they remain true.
They are like laws of physics: they may seem merely theoretical, but scientific observation indicates that they in fact shape time and space. Unless you can bend time and space to your will (you can't, can you? I thought so) you cannot change the reality underscored by laws 1 and 2. I am sorry.
The twelfth step. Be done with her. Sounds easy, but it is not. The pain will subside with time, blah blah. Occasionally it will come back. It will hurt. You will attempt to express your feelings through poetry, etc. (all guys do this but you seem particularly susceptible to this sort of crap). You will create mental narratives about how great your time together was. Note: it wasn't that great.