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- joyride0
I think when people get into the trying to save it roll, they concentrate on making it better so much it just adds to the stress. You're always thinking, "is it working, am I/we doing better".
Stop it!!!! Things worked out before because you were having fun just doing things. Not worrying about it, no stress. Go back to just doing fun things together, don't talk about the relationship or any of that. Just be fun, carefree and confident!
I know it's hard to just flip that switch, but the harder you try to show her that you're working hard to save it, the more you push her away. Just go back to having fun, the rest will fall in line.