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Her happiness is not your responsibility, it never has been, it never was, only she can be honest with herself. only then will she be truly happy if she decides to
statistically, there is another, true love should not make you suffer like this, my stepmother is not perfect, far from it, but what she brings to the table, compare to that of my "mother", things have drastically improved. My grandfather now says his son "is happy"
My father did it for me and I suggest it to any father I know who's confused, I'll quote
"Stay where your son can get to you"
No next town over, not your homeland, no new state, stay close. When my father left the house my mother and he lived in, he moved in right by a park i biked to everyday. I'm tearing up now realizing how important that was to me.
I even told a friend the same advice and not once in the past 6 years have I not been thanked for that advice on birthdays and christmas.
she doesn't matter, you don't matter, only he does. 9-10? at that age he's dad's best friend and a wad of willing play-dough. now is your time to shine as a dad, not nic.
I know what it's like to watch children cry and suffer because they realize what's going on. Just be happy he understands you.