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Nic, I've been in your shoes before and in the course of a 13 year relationship, I've also been in your partner's shoes too. Do you really not know why she's feeling this way? What's your role in this? When I left, I felt that I had been really taken for granted. Maybe your wife feels that your role of trying to get her back still reflects the situation that made her leave...meaning that it's still about you, not her and her happiness. Dunno if this is the case but that was how I felt and it ultimately validated my reasons for leaving. Have you guys gone to couples therapy?