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Everyone is going to have a different opinion on this, given their personal experience.
I dont agree with everything Kuz has said, but I think there is some good advice in there.
Only you will find your right answer to your relationship.
I agree that it sounds like you are looking for one answer, the stay and fight its worth it answer.
Dont know if thats true in your case, no one here does.
However, it sounds like you're probably in a situation now where you are doing everything for your relationship, and likely nothing for yourself.
My advice, start doing some things for yourself and not your relationship. This is a hard thing to do, to up and put the focus on yourself – really hard because it will involve serious self-criticism and change.
But I bet if you can turn your focus to yourself for a while, your answer will come after.