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What's more important in your life? Having a signifigant other or having a design career?
Remember work is only 8 hours a day, 5 days a week.
Talk to your wife and tell her you've been doing some thinking and want to spend more time with her. And do it. Most of all just talk, communicate, that's what its all about.
I sometimes spend way too much time on the computer than I should but I make sure while I am I take breaks every 15 minutes and talk to my wife, get ger drinks, chat... she reads or watches tv or whatever but she never feels alone when I'm working/designing.
When I am flat-out working I make it up and take her out to dinner or give her my full attention the next day, buy her gifts, etc.
Balance. Communicate. But most of all it sound slike you need to really think about what's important to you in life.