taking a break from your gf
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I am not saying this will happen to you, but I like to give a bit of the negative side to help you keep your positivity, if that makes sense?
I had a gf of almost 6 years tell me she needed time to herself and breathe a bit to think about what else she wanted in life. I didn't take it as a personal shove at me, just that she wanted to do her running without having to worry about anything else because I knew she was stressed (preparing for her MCAT's)
That was on a sunday night she told me this, on Friday she called me over the phone and told me: "I don't think we should be together anymore"...yea was a bit devastating, especially over the phone. However, what I took from it was the ability to focus during the hardest times, and taught myself how to keep my attention to other important things. Eventually, I found someone awesome, and I love her to death.
Anywho, do give her the space she needs, don't make her feel trapped (as i am sure you know this).... just remember there is still you to take care of too, and like jox said, this is your time to breathe and think about things..
who knows what will happen, but things will turn our perfect...i gaaroontee