OT: 20 guys or more
Out of context: Reply #97
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Jox, I consider you a friend since we've been in touch from the good old days and let me give you an advice.
First of all you made a mistake that you talked to her about that at all. The less you know about the past the better. I know that we all want to know and it's just the way the human nature is, but we shouldn't, it just complicates things. What anyone done in the past sexually is really their own business and it should stay in the past. ESPECIALLY if this is a girl you care about and want to have more.
I'm telling you this out of my personal experience bro. I was the same, I was with the girl I really really liked, you could even say I loved and during one night of cuddling we started talking about this and I wanted to know more and more and she told me. She was with 5 guys, so I agree with the previous posts, make that 10 guys and I even knew 2 of them.
Dude this bothered me. I thought it wouldn't, but it did. You just can't get that shit out of your head. It's the male competitivness, ego that bugs us afterwards and if you are like me you should drop the whole relationship thing with her, it will not work. I'm being dead honest with you.
Sure you might, say to yourself, fuck it, I don't care, I have enough self-confidence to rise above it and have a great relationship with this girl, but trust me, if you feel like that right now, it never goes away and it eventually breaks you apart.
I care about you dude, you are a good friend and I'm just saying to be very careful. You know yourself best, I'm just speaking out of my own experience. Girls DO NOT like this! It shows our weakness and eventually she might come out and tell you that she needs her space or some shit like that. When in fact she's just saying that she notices your struggle and it bothers her.
Be smart my friend. I would advise you to go on and stay friends with her if you care about her, but you might have serious dissapointment down the road if you feel this way about all that now and you develop a relationships with her. It will hurt like hell.
I hope you get your closure on this brotha. Cheers.