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Gucci I think you are very close to my situation. I'm not really needy that much, though I might look like it, it's just that we didn't spend enough time together and she's now far away from me. So it's like a long distance thing. So when she says space, I really don't get it.
Another thing is that she was sending me text messages very often and those were really emotional. For example she sends me a message "Call me for just a minute" and then she just gives me a kiss on the phone and tells me that's all she wanted and that I can go back work.
Then suddenly 2 days after another one of the similar messages she talks to me and keeps telling me that she needs time for herself, space or whatever. We had planned for her to come to visit for 2 months for us to live together and now she tells me that she doesn't think that's a good idea.
I'm just baffled. Seriously I care about this girl, but I just think that she has a problem not knowing what she wants or she found someone and just wanted to break it off. Though she's pretty much like Janine, she doesn't go out much at all but I guess it's what it is.
It's totally weird. It's been 5 days now and I haven't talked to her at all. No communication at all. We ended it in such a weird way that I never got closure I guess.
Anyways, I think you guys are right. Btw, I just met such a cute next door neighboor. She's a lovely girl. I think I"m just going to get to know her better and forget what happened and I have a date in a few days too with another chick that I know locally, so I'm feeling a bit better now, but it still hurts I guess, especially since I knew my girl/ex-girl or whatever from a while back and we were so close that I knew her whole family, loved her sister and all this. Now I'm like a freakin stranger, nobody wants to talk to me. WTF? And I really didn't do anything that would cause a reaction like that. Sucks ass in general.