stand up for someone

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  • mg330

    Quincy,

    The can of worms is just making all the problems more obvious by pointing them out.

    Let's just put it this way:
    The person's multi-year bad decisions are what have put them in the bad spot they are in.
    They are essentially choosing to blame my friend, when they could just keep their mouth shut. He does have a small bit to do with it, but look at it like this:

    If you took shitty care of your car for two years, no oil changes, no tune-ups, no new tires, etc. would you blame the person you let borrow it twice for the car breaking down?
    No, hopefully you'd blame yourself for never doing anything about the problems.

    I'm being metaphorical, but that's about how it is.

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