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    Hey,

    Sounds like you are having a hard time. I have been with the same girl for 8 years and we have been married for two.

    Life now is harder now than it was in college, .... working life.. babies... and a house that needs *tons* of work. Sometimes I think i feel the same .. but thats just life.

    With another girl I think the same would eventually happen and thats where the true test is. Can you keep on making it fun and interesting with the smae person for the rest of your life.

    The initial spark always goes eventually and even more so when you take on responsibility like house, mortgage etc...

    Also I'm not convinced that doing it so you can have more time to work is a good idea?

    Hope that helps

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