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- shellie0
i hate when guys fail to read the situation.
there have been a few occations where:
i meet a guy in an unexpected place. for instance, a neighborhood bar. thats usually a place i just go to meet up with friends after work. im not even thinking about looking at people. sometimes i just want a drink and some silence, and hang out with my friends, a couple of them happen to be bartenders at this bar.
i could possibly be interested... but later. they wont let alone.
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i dont mind talking, but all of the sudden conversation is intense and draining. I came there to relax, but leave tired after talking to you. (there's one person i keep running into that does this every time)
immediately i shut down. my responses become short. i hardly make eye contact. but, i dont really wanna say "fuck, please go away now"
i really wish people like that could read the obvious signals being put out there, and either change the way theyre communicating with you, or retire and try to meet up some other time.
every time this happens, especially when it happens more than once, the chances are blown. why would i ever want to date somebody who can't pick up on normal signals like that. some things are better left unsaid, or really shouldn't have to be explained.