Why would you ask?
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Meeklo: The fact that i often date guys that dont make as much money as i do should tell you right there that i really dont care about how much they make. If i did I'd run in the other direction.
i do care about drive tho. lazy assholes make me vomit. if they're working their ass off for 20 bucks an hour, then job well done.
like i said. we didnt really get to far intot he conversation with him. And he asked me. I could have cared less to have that conversation right then. I probably should have just said "i had a long day i'd rather not talk about work" But i felt like he was interested enough to ask me about what i did all day so i answered. i didnt really get that into detail about what i was doing or what i do. just kinda a quickie. i never talked about money... and often i avoid that with even friends because it becomes a very weird, innapropriate subject, don't you think?
to be honest i dont complain when guys make my pay. but it does sort of peev when they show up with a new stack of records and a fresh pair of shoes and then tell you their broke. it shows where their priorities are. they'd rather spend what money they do have on themselves instead of the girl theyre supposed to be dating.
I spend too much money on my friends and family and not enough on myself. But i grew up in a family where we all shared... and they never let me be a spoiled brat about anything.
I also notice guys that insist on going dutch all the time are often an only child or an only son.
And i also did say there are acceptions to the rule. Had ne not been so psychotic about it, I would have gone on a date with him anyway. Income does not put you out of the running.