Taking a 'break' from your gf/bf
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- chossy0
I will be bumping this thread in MAY 2014.
I have no doubt whatsoever that you will be either crying like a bitch or riding rude boy style on this date in May 2014
- omg0
- hereswhatidid0
You know what, just put her on the damn computer and we'll sort this out.
- doesnotexist0
time apart or taking a break is just the preamble to a breakup.
if she's flipping her lid over being apart for a weekend, maybe work on it without a break if you both want it to work. both parties need the same level of commitment though.
- sothere0
if you dont want to break up. then you should set yourself 1 month of no contact. This does 2 things. 1-means she will go crazy knowing she doesn't have access to you and she will hate it enough to want you back. 2- gives you time to work on yourself and thhink about if this relationship is really for you.
I did this and it worked a treat. I got back with my gf and our relationship is equalled up and way better.
other tips. if she does try to contact you be polite and if you do slip up and meet make it brief and dont have sex.
Good luck.
- cruddlebub0
yeah, go out and fuck as many ladies as you can. she'll be out banging/blowing loads too...
then get back together and never worry about it once... never... maybe a little. possibly check her phone... and emails...
fuck that. finish it, start again... there is obviously more con's than pro's if a break is on the cards.
- scarabin0
love is like a fart.
if you have to try really hard it's probably shit
- fadein110
Sorry to be harsh but if you need to ask advice on this site its over mate. If you need to turn to a public forum for advice you may be the problem (I stress may be). Saying that I've just been chatting to her on Facefuck so who knows who's to blame eh. Difficult one.
- JackRyan0
Make a mix tape of "Somebody" by Depeche Mode repeating over and over again, and put it in a heart shaped box, and leave it on her doorstep.
- Continuity0
Fuck that. Tell her she can have all the break she wants, 'cos your done.
Get your bollocks back, son.
- sine0
tell her to stop fucking you around.
tell her she made the decision, and it's her "move" now...
you're either fully together, or she has to deal with her decision to break up.do yo want to be with her long term?
ps. girls can be self-righteous cunts sometimes.
even the ones you love...
- cannonball19780
This smacks of head games.
- detritus0
Normally I'd agree with all the above, especially what chossy first wrote.. but actually in your case I think she just sounds spoilt and this was a very ill-considered ruse on her part to win something from you.
- SrSamaurai0
Tell her you need a permanent vacation and that it's not her it's you.
- chossy0
Its bullshit guy. 100% 'having a break' means you better start getting your Mac on soon cause its going to be a frosty cold winter if you dont. A mans gots to eat sir and you will go hungry if you nurture a poor girl like the one you seem to be with.