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- prophetone0
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- instrmntl0
Bummer.
Work out, get hotter, then she won't leave you in fear that you'll find someone better.
- futuremongolian0
well, she didn't go for the break up. So were gonna take a week off.
In summary: everything about the relationship is perfect (or pretty fucking good) except she has no feelings for me. Haha. I have no clue what to do.
Thanks for all the help guys.
- and not a "lets fuck other people" week off.futuremongolian
- why does this remind me of ross from friends... "but we were on a break!!!"prophetone
- great idea...
"fuck other people week"scarabin - hmmm... should have this week once a month. Everything would be spicy then.Amicus
- Gnash0
let it go. there is no way to hang on to something that's already gone.
- 4040
get a good fuck in.
- Continuity0
Pfft. Break up with her anyway. Why stick around for someone who's not into you?
- she's fine as fuck and hilarious.futuremongolian
- which leads me to take a bit more time with it. Try to consider baggage, etc.futuremongolian
- scarabin0
dump her first
- mantrakid0
a week off means she wanted to fuck someone else, but didnt want to feel guilty and do it while you were an item. :) Am I helping QBN style?
- futuremongolian0
Not 100% sure yet, she wants to "talk" and sort of insinuated last night that while everything is great she doesn't really feel anything.
Should I fight for this? If so how?
- _niko0
how old are you? might sting for a bit but you'll move on.
...then bang her best friend.
- scarabin0
tough to say not knowing the full situation but my first guess would be that unless something changes drastically, permanently (which almost never happens) she's gonna get a wandering eye even if you do convince her to stick around. and that's not good...
how long have you been together?
- 5 monthsfuturemongolian
- ohh yeah, still early enough to cut out with no major lossesscarabin
- vaxorcist0
People don't remember what you do or what you say as much as how you "made them feel" ... er... something like that was attributed to Maya Angelou....
remembering this idea is how you keep both clients and girlfriends ..... if you make somebody feel good, everything you do or say seems to reinforce that in their minds eye, whereas if you (even accidently) made somebody feel bad, everything you do or say somehow seems to reinforce that in their minds eye...
so, in a way, I wish you luck, but trying to convince her of anything through "logic" once she's felt a certain way will never work... whereas listening to her and trying to have a certain kind of empathy, not just promising to change, can possibly have an effect...
but of course, if you're both basically wrong for each other, then maybe breaking up is good for both of you!
good luck either way....
- Llyod0
she's probably sick of screwing the same person
- _niko0
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- utopian0
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- 4040
Let her go.
But...If you really want her to stick around the last thing you should do is beg her to stay, that will only push her further away. instead tell her you agree and you have been thinking that you two need time apart from each other. DO NOT call her or bother her and I guarantee before you know it she will contact you to hang out.