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- futuremongolian
A girl is one.
I think my GF is gonna dump me, what do I do?
- instrmntl0
Bummer.
Work out, get hotter, then she won't leave you in fear that you'll find someone better.
- Gnash0
let it go. there is no way to hang on to something that's already gone.
- 4040
get a good fuck in.
- scarabin0
dump her first
- futuremongolian0
Not 100% sure yet, she wants to "talk" and sort of insinuated last night that while everything is great she doesn't really feel anything.
Should I fight for this? If so how?
- _niko0
how old are you? might sting for a bit but you'll move on.
...then bang her best friend.
- scarabin0
tough to say not knowing the full situation but my first guess would be that unless something changes drastically, permanently (which almost never happens) she's gonna get a wandering eye even if you do convince her to stick around. and that's not good...
how long have you been together?
- 5 monthsfuturemongolian
- ohh yeah, still early enough to cut out with no major lossesscarabin
- vaxorcist0
People don't remember what you do or what you say as much as how you "made them feel" ... er... something like that was attributed to Maya Angelou....
remembering this idea is how you keep both clients and girlfriends ..... if you make somebody feel good, everything you do or say seems to reinforce that in their minds eye, whereas if you (even accidently) made somebody feel bad, everything you do or say somehow seems to reinforce that in their minds eye...
so, in a way, I wish you luck, but trying to convince her of anything through "logic" once she's felt a certain way will never work... whereas listening to her and trying to have a certain kind of empathy, not just promising to change, can possibly have an effect...
but of course, if you're both basically wrong for each other, then maybe breaking up is good for both of you!
good luck either way....
- Llyod0
she's probably sick of screwing the same person
- _niko0
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- 4040
Let her go.
But...If you really want her to stick around the last thing you should do is beg her to stay, that will only push her further away. instead tell her you agree and you have been thinking that you two need time apart from each other. DO NOT call her or bother her and I guarantee before you know it she will contact you to hang out.
- futuremongolian0
I dunno ... maybe she's just feeling down. Problem is thus far it's been nothing short of amazing. Then all of a sudden a flash of darkness.
Lemme check her calendar.
- chossy0
100% get a shag in now man, cause it might be the last for a couple of months.
I'm telling you, you will be a single man soon. Tap that ass yo! like mad caveman pussy, then bam you got that memory in your head of her just how you like her, then when she dumps you you have some material to keep you going through the long-ish dry spell which is streching out infront of you. Until you meet a chick who lets you bed her then awwwwww yeah playa you can forget about that other hoeeeeiach!!!!!
- monospaced0
sea_sea, what are your thoughts?
- futuremongolian0
Ok according to a generic period calendar it looks very possible she is at the height of hormonal activity. Still tho, should I do a preemptive strike or just wait a while?
- JackRyan0
She's flipped the switch to off position. Never understood how women can do that, but you know immediately...even if they're still hospitable. I agree, be aloof and don't act bothered. Treat 'em mean...keep 'em keen. She'll pursue you if she's interested, if not...then the picture you posted is the road to follow.
- chossy0
Take a run at her man, shy bairns get nae sweeties.
- is that scottish for hit her? or?futuremongolian
- goddamit, he means twiddle her bean, stoke her fire, and spread your seed like a motherfucking farmer.Amicus
- agree give her the root long and hard74LEO