Dating coworkers??
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- maikel0
From here on, everything previously posted will meant regret : P
- 20020
Is Epill in China?
- 20020
First, lets do the right thing by removing your real email.
- 20020
So my old boss was a total asshole.
It was my first job out of college. He paid me like a full time contractor, 27k USD per year, 40 hours a week, but I was a contractor so I had no insurance or benefits. I didn't know any better. I think I can still sue him if I wanted.
He made me work my ass off for peanuts. I even had to help paint a new office we moved into, and only bought me lunch ONCE. That was a month of weekends for only 8 dollars.
I was always stressed out about the designs I did, that he would yell at me and not like them or whatever. He even made me tear up a few times since he was such a dick. I never cry dammit, Im a guy! But I care about my work and my job. He would put the weight of the company on my back, since it was just us two.
The last few months I was there, he hired a kid straight out of school. He was a great designer. They ended up ganging up on my about some of my stuff, and the boss played favorites with this kid. They would go out to lunch and not invite me. And planned a trip to the Detroit auto show and said I needed to stay in the office and answer phones. WTF?!?!
So anyway, I just checked the website I designed for the company and noticed it changed. Then I saw the address, which is at his sisters house. Instead of the old office park we use to be in.
HAHAHAHHAHAHA STUPID FUCK. Thats what you get for being a dick to everyone.
- what could possibly go wrong..2002
- what does this have to do with dating coworkers?pango
- wrong thread?ernexbcn
- you boss made you piitb?sine
- I expect to hear something like this about the co worker soonish2002
- Let it all out broattentionspan
- Sounds like pretty much average experience for most designers ;(qTime
- CALLES0
PICS
and i guess the job in new york didnt go well eh?
- I will post some tonight. And the interview is tomorrow.
Frosty_spl - good luck!ebertzjaw
- I will post some tonight. And the interview is tomorrow.
- ernexbcn0
Ban this horrible person now.
- BusterBoy0
just post her facebook here and we'll be able to give you the best course of action.
- Frosty_spl0
I'm not posting pics when 2002 is trying to rat me out in real life.
- Frosty_spl0
I don't want her pic to be photoshop battled. But it would be funny if it were someone I don't know. So I can't blame you guys, haha.
- CALLES0
there he us! well at least gives us moe details... and no not about the sex but you know... whats going on? summer fling? dating material what?
- dan53820
pics or it didn't happen.
- yup. pics of the dirty skank!ebertzjaw
- get her on girlfriendvideos.com… too!ebertzjaw
- nicedan5382
- drgs0
Frosty is not replying -- i'm worried
- got rapeddigdre
- Probably yanking it since he got no action yesterday.CygnusZero4
- shellie0
I can vouch for a lot of lurking Design/UX/and Producer girls out there. They lurk more than they participate in conversations but they're still there. Don't be so lazy man you're outing yourself in a forum she'll likely find.
I'd say keep your true thirst levels under wraps and do what you want if you can muster up a little more swag (for lack of a better term). If you really think you cant be cool dating someone in the office means someone has to quit when the relationship dissolves. It might be her, but it might be you -- so be prepared for that. You've got to be able to handle a person who could possibly not separate work and pleasure. And if you get on with those Shades of Grey style romantic trysts in the office you can guarantee that might be hard for her (or you). It's hard not to clique up like a couple when you're dating and working in the same place with lunches and social type crap so be ready for that. Let it be known that tech girls are too good at computer sleuthing and girls hate the thirst (even tech girls). I'd categorize getting dating advice from a forum kind of a thirsty move so you should probably retire that strategy for life. (I love the word thirst -- paints an appropriate picture dunnit?)
But here's some advice from a girl. Dial it way back and she'll be chasing down your D in no time.
- what is all this thirsty shit you keep talking aboutscarabin
- im pretty sure you get it. you're thirsty to get a reaction from me every time i post anything.shellie
- when swag gets sweaty, it gets thirsty.lambsy
- i've addressed you maybe twice in the last ten years, don't flatter yourself. i assumed this thirsty thing had a specific meaning since i'd never heard it beforescarabin
- maybe i don't listen to enough rapscarabin
- you forget how much you snark. I forgive you.shellie
- shellie0
Orrrr this could happen:
- boobs0
Stairwell fucking is a good way to spend lunch hour.
- OSFA0
So, if you two end up marrying, you MUST invite us all!!!
- monospaced0
dibs on the wedding invite design