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  • boobs

    So I ran into an old college friend of mine who I hadn't seen in years when I was out shopping tonight. The store was about to close, so we didn't have much time to chat. But, she did manage to say something I want help decoding:

    She said that she married late in life, and she felt lucky that she had two children, who were both born after she turned 40. The part that stuck in my mind was when she said, "I married a friend. A friend. We have an arrangement. So, you know, things have been kind of a struggle in a lot of ways."

    Now, I didn't have time to ask for elaboration, but what do you suppose that meant?

    May 15, 08, 7:37 p.m. – Permalink
  • Glitterati_Duane

    That means you're in like Flinn buddy

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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:38 p.m. – Permalink
  • marychain

    Gay friend

    • Who's gay in your scenario? Man, woman, both?– boobs1/6
      it means she married her gay friend who is still in the closet. She enjoys being with him, but doesn't love him– marychain2/6
      I seen it a hundred times– marychain3/6
      bingo– lvl_134/6
      Umm, then who's the father of the two wee ones?– boobs5/6
      He is.....k
      johnny just learned the world isn't just black and white today      – marychain6/6
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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:38 p.m. – Permalink
  • jfletcher

    Is she Asian? Parents giving her pressure to get married?
    Maybe she's gay? or he's gay?

    • Pick one story, and stick to it. This is not charades.– boobs
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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:39 p.m. – Permalink
  • locustsloth

    It means that they've decided that living life with someone you like is better than having no one to love

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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:39 p.m. – Permalink
  • katekelly

    It means shes still lookin for love

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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:40 p.m. – Permalink
  • ukit

    She slept with her friend, got pregnant, and felt like they had to get married to support the kid

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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:40 p.m. – Permalink
  • _salisae_

    i've had friends ask me to be their 'backup plan' in case they didn't get married by a certain age.

    • Hahahahaha.– JackRyan1/6
      7!– mrdobolina2/6
      I have at least 3. Hey, don't joke about backup plans. I'm sure they'll come in handy one day...wait...– katekelly3/6
      it's nice you call them friends.– Corvo4/6
      I wouldn't blame them

      ; )      – VectorMasked5/6
      I'm pretty sure I should have evoked my backup plan... onto the backup backup plan– joyride6/6
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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:40 p.m. – Permalink
  • Corvo

    That means you feel guilty somehow? What have you done?

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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:41 p.m. – Permalink
  • VectorMasked

    She means she wants to bang other people. She wants to get it hard and soft.

    There's regret and would like to start over again. She needs a 2nd chance for looooooooooove.

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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:42 p.m. – Permalink
  • JackRyan

    I thought that being your mates friend was the best case scenario in marriage, I have no idea what that could mean.

    • *lack of imagination– boobs
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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:42 p.m. – Permalink
  • _salisae_

    i hate it when people say 'you know' when they know you have no idea what they mean. it's very manipulative. kind of sneaky. i use it all the time.

    • Are you still looking for scrolly border stuff?– JackRyan1/15
      lol.– Corvo2/15
      no thank heavens– _salisae_3/15
      don't laugh. i am designing packaging for soap. it could have happened to anyone.– _salisae_4/15
      I was just going through some resources and found this old book that I scanned in...sorry it's too late.– JackRyan5/15
      send that shit on over. my instructions were to design it in the 30s label look.– _salisae_6/15
      i missed the mark a little and have to do it again.– _salisae_7/15
      sorry i cursed *– _salisae_8/15
      GIMME THAT F##CKING FLOURISH– _salisae_9/15
      Can your email handle large files?– JackRyan10/15
      i'll could send you log in details and you can upload it to my server.– _salisae_11/15
      This is getting kinky.– JackRyan12/15
      hahahha– _salisae_13/15
      It's a little over 10mbs.
      – JackRyan14/15
      *emailing– _salisae_15/15
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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:43 p.m. – Permalink
  • flashbender

    she wants you to PIITB

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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:46 p.m. – Permalink
  • _salisae_

    my question is, are you interested in her or just pondering her situation?

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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:50 p.m. – Permalink
  • Corvo

    That means you have no clue about what she meant.

    • I wish I was this literal everyday.– Corvo
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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:52 p.m. – Permalink
  • ernexbcn

    that must suck

    • never post twice!– Corvo
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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 7:53 p.m. – Permalink
  • boobs

    I have some clues what she meant.

    She is a very beautiful and attractive woman. Striking and lovely face; slender and smooth body; luxuriant head of brunette hair; tall and erect posture; serious and not flirty personality. She was the center of a great deal of sexual attention, and speculation, back in our college days.

    Near as I can tell, she's even-handedly bisexual, with strong appetites both ways. She's had her heart broken by beautiful (fragile) women, and beautiful (strong and husky) men. Perhaps she has a bit of a doormat personality any way she plays it? Could be; I'm not completely sure.

    But now she's a married woman living in the country with her husband and two children.

    What was she saying to me, as she handed me her cell number?

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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 8:21 p.m. – Permalink
  • organic_grid

    She was says "Eat me, big boy"

    • I guess I'll go licking around her stall then.– boobs
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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 8:23 p.m. – Permalink
  • Jaline

    Hmmm...I thought this was about an open relationship, but maybe it's not because she mentions "struggles"? Who knows, though. It's probably the marriage-due-to-child explanation that ukit said.

    Or they could have an open relationship, moreso due to her bisexuality or need for other relationships (or incompatibility, or it could have to do with her husband), but the couple feels they should be together in marriage for the children.

    • Short of it: if she gave you her #, she clearly wants some support, sexual or otherwise.– Jaline1/2
      Good point, Jaline,
      I'll give her a call, and lend my support!      – boobs2/2
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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 8:27 p.m. – Permalink
  • boobs

    Jaline,

    I should commend you. You always come in with the most sensible advice. We should turn this into the

    "Ask Jaline..." forum,

    and maybe set it up so you can make a few "Loons."

    Ciao!

    • I just mixed what everyone else said in English :)– Jaline
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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 8:34 p.m. – Permalink
  • acescence

    citizenship maybe? that could be "an arrangement"

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    Dog-earMay 15, 08, 8:39 p.m. – Permalink

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