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- mimeartist0
If my relationship was on the line, and I was on the phone to her while posting on here, then perhaps thats why she wandered?
- nocomply0
that sucks. sorry dude.
- contia10
I am dating a girl right now and she has a 3yo daughter. It is so hard because when you fight or break up not only do you lose one you lose two.
I love the two of them. But the father of the child is very much in the picture.
Their is times that i fear them reconnecting..Was that the case in your situation?
Short story long, i am in a similar situation.
- mimeartist0
sorry to hear it though... real bummer!
- version30
James, there's nothing on the line. I have more self respect than that. She fucked up. I'm having these conversations with everyone here because they deserve my time and seem to care just a little more.
Like I said, details to the moon, I did all I could, morilla said it best.
- Rand0
I'm sorry V4
ps, is it just me, or were a few of these responses incredibly stupid?
- CALLES0
i know it sounds like a cliche... but you are probably better off... it will work out better for you
- OSFA0
be strong man. move on and have a great weekend.
Do you paint, write, draw or collect stuff?
- pyeaton0
yeah v4, this isnt your fault by any strtch. You didnt jepordize your realtionship by doing what she did.
- version30
Rand, they are "so nt", you guys are the other half of my life. NT helps the time go by while working in this basement. If I wasn't posting, I was with her. We had plenty of time to be apart. Weird part is, some people from my past have recently reentered my life. Twicein the past week have I been told blunty, they wanted to sleep with me. At first i didn't want to because I was happy where I was. Now I don't want to because I don't use people to get over others. My life is the strange situation, not this woman whose confusion helped make a decision she'll regret. I'm cool, just swirling with thoughts.
- version30
and contia, i'm only happy because i know i was honest the entire time. The fact that that's a goodbye i have to say to myself sucks, but i can't and won't ask for any more than that. not my child, just a friend.
- contia10
As long as you know you did the right thing. Just hang in there.
- morilla0
good eye V4, stay away from the opposite sex for awhile. It helps.
- tank0
i'm sorry to hear that justin.
its the crappiest feeling there...
but.
you rock!
- Gucci0
sucks dude. you seem like a really cool guy.
If you were a chick, I'd do you.
... In all seriousness, cheating has happened to me personally (admittedly, to a far lesser extent than your situation) and others. The same thing happens: the cheatee doubts themself, when in reality, the cheater was always the one with the problem.
Get the whole truth if you feel like hearing it, but don't let the pursuit of it consume you...
- Gucci0
sorry. i didn't read any posts before mine if it seems way out of line.
- no90
Year of the Dog man. It sucked for all of us. She (mine) cheated on me (2 yr relationship) w/ my long-term friend and roommate.
Punishment from Pluto?
- version30
wow, you guys should've heard this conversation she just yelled at me. what a waste of 6-7 months
- OeufOeuf0
99 problems but a bitch ain't 1, just came on the radio.
This ones for you bro!
- version30
i love you guys
in a completely homosexual way too ;)