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- uberdesigner0
living with parents is great
- kuttyranks0
Enter response: think your on the wrong forum mate,get your shit together
- Fariska0
I think is time to move out.
Both you and your parents need a separate life. And when you begin to live outside your family you will start seeing your parents in a different way, and undestrand many things (at least this happened to me)
- Jaline0
Haha, uber.
Thanks version3. Very insightful. It's true, I'm really quiet and it frustrates my mom. She's a morning person, and enjoys talking ALL THE TIME. I'm not, and I don't.
Btw, Do you have a Myspace account?
- uberdesigner0
I hate Jaline's mother
- version30
Jaline-
My dad was abusive physically and my mother mentally and emotionally. I did truly hate my mother until she died, now its just over. my father and I had the ups and downs described in this thread by others but all and all communication is the key. I wouldnt have things any different with my father and stepmother. We argued and fought alot growing up and i got several of the insults you most likely encounter.
When i started out i had no support from either of them as there was no manual labor, they too thought i was wasting my time. 9 years later though, not needing them really makes them want to be there for me.
the best part to me is that my stepmothers children have become MY brother and sister. Everyone in the family will say i'm who brings it all together and allows our family to be great friends.
I guess what i'm saing is that your parents don't know any beter how to be your parents thatn you know how to be thier kid.
Time is the true test, and love is making it work when it seems like it never will.
I wish you the best.
-Sidenote-
I saw you on myspace through someones profile the other day. not at all what i expected. you seem to be very internal, that probably frustrates your mom a little, not knowing whats going on in your headbut i'm with brooke on this, you're pretty dope and most likely will do some pretty cool stuff before its all said and done
:) -me
- Jaline0
Thanks :)
Except for you newbies, but it's true, I should be writing this in my blog, haha.
One of the major problems my mom has is the amount of time I spend on the computer. But seriously, I have the worst luck ever. She always notices me on the computer, not doing anything else. It just annoys me so much. I don't spend even 5 hours on the computer, and if I do it also has to do with work. Anyway, I'll be 20 in less than 2 years and I'll be moving out by then.
- saroose0
also, don't worry about turning into your parents. Everyone is an individual.
I know some people who have the nastiest parents but are amazing lovely people.
Just carry on being the lovely way you are and you'll have no problems. xx
- saroose0
Hey jaline, chin up. Don't listen to the negative insults from your mam. I've had some nasty fights with my mam in the past and horrible things were said but sometimes it's just in the heat of the moment and should be forgotten about.
You're a lovely, honest, funny talented lady and don't listen to haters.
I'm sure relations will get better
- GreedoLives0
the best way to really appreciate your family is to put some distance between you and them.
- jamble0
I've never had any problems with my parents, they've always been really supportive for me and my sister :)
- tfsmag0
if you're in your twenties and haven't moved out yet it's probably time to hit the road...
your relationship with your mom will be better for it.
- tank0
hey newbies.fuck off
to jaline.
i had the same with my dad;now that i moved and sometimes visit its better.
- ornj0
or on Live journal. Hold the camera above your head, then open the picture in photoshop and make sure it's burnt out.
- el_capitan0
Shouldn't you be writing this up in your blog? Just a thought... :)
- _me_0
grow up
- foreign0
Check this: two months before I was going to move out of the house, my mom kicked me out!
Asked me to leave as soon as possible, 'cause she can't live another two months with me, after 20 years!?
And leading up to that she was a horrible person to live with.
It's all a game. She did the same thing with my sister, who, after spending 2 years overseas, lived for 2 months with my mom, before she was asked to leave.
She was just dealing with the fact that we are moving on, and propably won't need her as much anymore.
- Jaline0
Yeah, I know my parents hate not seeing me. My mom always cries whenever I'm away, like a few times when I went to camp. And I was like 16. She just doesn't know how to show respect I guess.
- foreign0
once you move out, you will only get them in small good doses, and they are happy to see you everytime. maybe they just fear that day.
designerror
(Jul 23 05, 16:25)very true.