Why would you ask?
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- ThreeSevenFive0
I've been living here since '97.
Originally from San Antonio, Tx.As soon as I visited here in the summer of '96, I knew I had to move here.
You should visit again. It just keeps growing.
- MrDinky0
i think everyone has their down time.
some people i know who are doing well and dont do well.
as for me, i dont think i am where i wanted to be back when i was thinking where i would be later on.
- ThreeSevenFive0
Well put tonx.
(a & b especially)
- gabe0
not to be sexist, but women in general commonly read way too far into things and over-analyze...
sometimes, us men really aren't that complicated -- at all
- gruntt0
jus picken'
;)
- 67nj0
shellie, maybe you should see if he's worth a rehab, after all you said he was cute... is the rest so important?
- gabe0
hahaha -- hey tonx, thx for that info. going to check out that class next week
- Meeklo0
"Well put tonx.
(a & b especially)
ThreeSevenFive
(Jun 22 05, 13:34)"Don't forget about E, very true indeed..
- ThreeSevenFive0
and e
- uberdesigner0
get in my porsche
- shellie0
hes cute and nice as far as i remember. maybe hes changed, which i also fear. its been.. god.. 8 years almost since we were "friends"
- emokid0
gabe is the man
- shellie0
To be honest I probably wouldn't have talked about work at all.
We had plenty of other things to talk about and catch up on. But I didn't think saying I work at an Ad Agency would have been a big deal.
OH, also, he was like "where are you at right now" and I said "In santa monica. I would prefer to stay near the west side for the night, if possible" He lives in Highland Park (ghetto). That might have done it too.
I guess there's nothing I can do about his situation, or mine. But, is there any way to diffuse the situation so he feels more comfortable with developing a long lost friendship? I NEVER remember him being this way.
- exador10
hey shellie..
just to chime in here, i coulda sworn you were married too..
i thought you'd said something about it a few years back..
(good lord, how long have we been on NT anyhow..)
anyways, don't mean to pry...if you weren't i must've gotten confused with someone else, and if you were, but aren't anymore, then it's none of my business anyhow...
as far as this dude is concerened..i'd pretty much drop it...he's probably a cool guy and all, but its also very likely he's stuck in a wicked huge rut in his life, and he's got to get himself together.
also, it can be pretty demoralizing for someone in that position to see how far you, a younger woman have gotten so far...
it sucks, but thats kind of the way it is sometimes..don't mean you can't be friends, but it might be a bit dicey..
cheers shellie..
ex
- shellie0
for once gabe you said something of truth.
- version30
he sounds insecure, don't waste your time shellie.
- brandelec0
getting together and talkin 'bout the good old days should be comfortable enough no?
may be there's something else going on he hasn't told you yet
OR he really likes you but he feels loserish
you guys need to get face to face, should smooth out some uncertainties
- 2cents0
i thought you were married?... i remember you mentioning your "hubby" here before.
- shellie0
kOna bang the sister bang the sister do it do it NOW.
and take pictures.
- tkmeister0
i didn't read the whole thread, but it happened to me.
it was more like a disappointment. when i met up with some of my old friends afer not seeing for so many years, they've completely changed and all they were looking for was just an easy way out. no drive to do anything better.
but I realized that that's no reason why I can't be friends. everyone is different. just because I have a lot of drive, doesn't mean everyone should.