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- ricstultz0
yep, establish a guy's night out type thing.. kinda sound a little teh ghey tho.
- grafholic0
when one is in the state of transition, one may not see that s/he is changing (though subconsciously one notices it).
your friend is going through a major change, and people are usually scared of the change. it is not his intention to keep you away, but he's made a decision to be domestic with the gf, and he would like to believe that the change he's making is good for him. he only wishes you to support him for the action, and when you tell him "dude, remember when we got shit faced...?", it only makes him resent you (and he'd think that you're trying to sabotage the good thing that's happening to him).
just be a supportive friend for now and he'll realize his stupidity later.
- 2cents0
its called growing up dude.
- vb_0
yeah, grafholic nailed it.
it's tough but it is true. i am going thru the same sh*t.. but it's actually not bad at all, once the change is becoming more clear to you you will learn to appreciate it.
heck, i have even found more time to do things for myself and make some new friends here and there..
- nick0
*gives ponyboy a big hug
- PonyBoy0
;)
thanks all!
- ricstultz0
yep, change is good ponyboy. He'll be there for ya when ya need him... let him get settled in a bit.
- mrdobolina0
that sucks dude, but it is all a apart of growing up.
- brandelec0
people change, but i hope the loyalty doesn't fade too much
- rasko40
things drift apart. this is the way of the universe.
sad but true
- beagle0
unlike your situation, NT will never get a gf and ditch you ponyboy, the gang is always here for ya.
bitch :)
- kbags0
unlike your situation, NT will never get a gf and ditch you ponyboy, the gang is always here for ya.
bitch :)
beagle
(May 18 05, 13:48)BWAAHAHAHAAAA! That's funny! But I do feel ya, ponyboy. I like the advice to let it settle best...
- randoman0
Is this the same show where you had the white woman revelation?
- PonyBoy0
ha... seen that dopepope... and I follow you. ;)... not sure I'd go the slightly 'gay' route though.
- kbags0
in my experience, one of three things will most likely happen:
1- the honeymoon fades and you get your old buddy back more, but maybe not the girl so much
2- they break up and you're the pivot man so you have to choose
3- you eventually get your own gf and then you all hang out--or don't
- robotron3k0
i HATE it when people bogart the stash.
and it sounds like the couple turned into a 4-eyed monster...
- fr0st0
i feel ya ponyboy...untill you get a girl of your own and you can set up a double date with them, it's always going to be awkward hanging out with them. Although, if you were REALLY close as you say it then ya'll shouldn't have changed in the first place.
A time and place for everything, they should be able to revert back to being buddies when your around just so you won't feel awkward
- PonyBoy0
Is this the same show where you had the white woman revelation?
randoman
(May 18 05, 14:00)
++++++++++++As a matter of fact... yes.
- PonyBoy0
thanks for the love all... I don't feel so alone in this situation anymore. :)
I shouldn't feel like a tool or like I'm in the way.. right? If they don't want me around much - it's their problem then... right?
*tear