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So I'm working a tucson arizona ...jewelry gem show. Networking admin, wiring, photography, film, social media & general labor among other things for a pretty penny. ( they flew me out here from Los angels). Things get boring doing the same shit for 17 days @ 12 hour days. I met a girl, at first she was the snack girl, a local temp from tucson arizona who just got a piece of land and moved here from phoenix arizona, her name was for qbn purposes...Jane.
Jane has the prettiest smile, the most down to earth personality that seems common with arizona locals compared to the whores in los angels where i live. Big eyes which i could look into for hours, I had my doubts on her interest so i took my time using small talk while getting snacks and coffee. she is 39, me being 30.... She got to the point of flirting, "You are so cute, you are so nice, you this that this"...while never being able to take my money because i was staff. I took a day off from talking to her to see if something was really going on when i found her looking for me and asking if i needed anything. i got her number and added her to facebook. Janes FB really empty because shes not an "online" type of person. I made custom event tickets for an after party (for the jewlery show) which really boiled down to a "mid event party" which i gave her tickets to, she had to work the "after party".
The event was 5 hours long, featured some shitty urban spanish bands and some POI or fire performers which were pretty half ass and periodically burned themselves. I took a moment to pay for a beer which i normally get free just to talk to her and get her number, she gave it to me. The flirting continued, flirting turned into morning text messages of "good morning!" etc etc. I finally got the balls to ask her out and she said she was busy followed by a text of "you know im not single right?".
Dunno what to really say about this post but man, i spent 2 days trying to ignore what she said, with her continuing to flirt with me it was easy. I've asked her to some places ive never been like casinos, dinner etc in arizona, with no response but she continues to flirt and look for me while working because she knows where the IT room is.
ive had bad terribly bad luck with women but this one has the personality i am looking for. I got 2 days left in this fucking dump full of cactus and barren land with nothing. I flirt, i push my luck with not much response and sometimes want to grab her from behind and tickle her. 2 days left.....
I dont want to her think im a creeper, ive tried to let her know i really enjoy her company and have tried to express it..., ive tried to make sure that "i should of, would of" situation doesnt come up when i leave.....ive tried everything in reason while she continuous to flirt with me...at times making excuses like "i had to do laundry and my man me dinner" while she tells me "you made my day better" and " you are so kind and gorgeous" "you made my day better by just seeing you"... shes got no ring, ive looked..
Im all out of hope and it bums me out...what do do qbn..
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*Would haveprospect - If she has told you she's not single and won't accept a date but keeps flirting it's because she enjoys it. If you can't enjoy just flirting ignore her.prospect
- http://i.imgur.com/U…imbecile
- sounds like she likes your interest. probably makes her feel good. either have fun and flirt or just sort of ignore her the last 2 days. She is already taken.capn_ron
- she is preying on your desperation, don't be so needy or this type of cock-teasery will continue with other womenterry_cloth
- ^ what terry said, she needs attention, senses your desperation...robotron3k
- you the dude who posted the long disturbing story about having a beer and buying some chinos from soneone you liked in a mal?fadein11
- That was imbecile:
http://www.qbn.com/r…weirdname - what did you say when she texted "you know i'm not single, right" ?
just say, "I didn't know -- so is that a , no, then?"Gnash - the heart wants what it wantsGnash
- perhaps she only just starting seeing the guy, or maybe it's played out and she's just putting the cards on the table.Gnash
- she knows you're from out of town—she's just being mad flirty because you're nothing to fear... you're leaving soon. Plus she's not looking to hook-up... she...PonyBoy
- ...informed you she has a man etc... I'd just make a new friend and keep in touch if you really find that great. When she dumps her current schlub you're...PonyBoy
- ... barely a 6 hour drive awayPonyBoy
- haha... not saying you'd be her next 'schlub'. :) If you really dig her you have a means to keep in touch... don't push anything right now.. just be cool!PonyBoy
- girls desperately need attention. try ignoring her for a bit, there is good chance this may cause her to want you even morebliznutty
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