My best friends wife...
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Dude.
If she wouldn't bother with even as much as an explanation, after what I assume to have been a significant amount of time spent together, I wouldn't expect to get a satisfying enough answer as to "why?". Even through a solicitor.
Perhaps she'd eventually ease up and give more answers. Perhaps not. Either way that sort of shit won't settle any time soon and that uncertainty has to be one of the more devastating things someone would have to wade through.
Sadly the only workable remedy seems to be time.
As a friend how about just being there? Half the job is simply being present. Even when it gets straining.Dust him off and introduce your friend to the world again when ready.
But don't deny any time to grieve. That's lingering future trouble.