Something too personal.

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    Your tone leads me to believe you truly are holding on to a lot of anger that you formed before you were an adult. This is the reason many people go into therapy in the first place, trying to come to terms with emotions that have been bottled up since before you could even DEAL with or understand them. If I were your friend, I would urge you to speak to someone who deals with this stuff regularly. Anyone who tells you "God will fix it" should not be taken seriously. That's not a real solution, it's a cop out.

    If you don't know how to deal with this, that's understandable. Nobody knows how to deal with it by default. Life is messed up, but it shouldn't be spent judging and controlling (that's what religion tries to do, by the way), it should be spent living it. Wasting your time and emotional energy hating on a lifestyle is only going to make you more anxious, it'll make you age faster, and it'll kill relationships. So, go talk to someone. If you have health insurance, you can probably just book an appointment with a regular therapist. If you like him/her, talk. If you don't, move on. Be happy, my friend. Don't hate.

    • But, don't think of this website as a free mental health clinic. We don't care about you.waterhouse
    • precisely, waterhousemonospaced

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