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- tOki0
Man I've got a very similar situation with my father, feel you there.
I've completely cut him off. At times I wish I could call him, go get a beer and watch a game. But then I remember all the times he's done wrong by my family or I and I realise there is good reason.
My parents split whilst I was overseas when I was 18. It screwed up my life for a year or two afterwards. I was virtually made homeless and told that university was no longer an option. 6 years later and he still can reduce my younger sister to a mess, and insults the memory of his own brother who commited suicide. The whole time I'm being told I'm a gutless runt and that it's obviously from my bitch mothers side of the family. He's sick in the head and I have no remorse. People like this get given so chances and always throw them away. My sisters are a testament to this and continually suffer for their efforts. I wish they could walk away like I have.
Do what you feel is right, but don't fall into a pattern of disappointment, hurt or lies. Again I don't know your father so I can't say what is right. Live your life, take care of the people around you and find happiness for yourself.
I could go on for hours lol