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- KuzIV0
you can cancel and say no to her. Don't become her plaything. It's not very respectful to you. I'm sure you love her deeply and you know her intimately and are willing to forgive her so much. But you judge a person by their actions.
If you want to see her, see her. But on YOUR terms. Cancel tonight, say your busy, and rearrange for another night. I promise you, she'll start to chase you once you act a little aloof. Bottomline, she has to respect you.
The problem is, in your mind, you still see this girl as the one and only. Which is sad, cos she isn't. I want you to move on from her mentally, before you start dealing with her again. If you're still wrapped up in her everytime you see her, she's gonna find you very boring and unappealing. The last thing you want is pity from her.
Once she can see you've moved on from her, then you can begin nurturing her as a fuck-buddy. Ha! Girls are weird, some of em need to play these silly little games.