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- hektor911
My girlfriend's father just passed away. Everything so fast, she is now left with no family. Her mother passed away due to cancer when she was 13 yrs old, her brother passed away 4 years and now her father. The feeling of being left alone in this world with no brothers or parents must be really hard.
I just hope to God to give me the strength to help her out thru this hard times.Guys give your parents and brothers a call every now and then. I know I need to do that more often.
- eoin0
You are a good guy Hektor, your girlfriend is lucky she has you.
- utopian0
I'm sorry to hear Hector.
- ksv1230
Sorry to hear this Hector, my thoughts are with you guys.
You are right about the contacting family.
- brandelec0
sad indeed. she's lucky to have you hektor.
- 23kon0
Very sad news. Be all you can be for her.
- DRIFTMONKEY0
"good guy Hektor"
Yup.
- tank020
Thats rough. My mom passed away 5 years ago. Felt already alone, can't imagine how she feels being al alone now. Just be there for her, that al you can do I imagine. Lots of strength!
- capn_ron0
Stay strong for her. You are a really good man and she is lucky you are there for her. I will be calling my family today for sure.
- hektor9110
Guys,
Thanks you so much for your kind words.
- pango0
:(
- oey0
Keep it up, do as you think and be strong.
Your wish for strength is a sign that she can count with you to support her.
I can't imagine being left like that!I call my mother or she calls me once a week, I live abroad.
The other day I was taking for two hours with my brother, after 6 months of no contact. He's living in China and it's hard to communicate.
I miss him very much.Again, I wish you all good and hope you manage to help her through this.
- chrisRG0
Really sorry to hear this.
She's not alone, she has you and I'm confident you'll be strong to keep it up.
all the best mate!
- sureshot0
Sorry to hear dude. Be strong for her, make her feel safe and try to make her laugh when possible.
- CALLES0
damn sorry hektor. just be there. even in silence
- stoplying0
Condolences man.
- Akagiyama0
:( My condolences. I'm sure having you there with he will be a lot of help. Take care.
- ernexbcn0
:(
- Beeswax0
It's really a sad case. Eventually parents pass away and we all feel that, but loosing a brother as well must be really hard for her.
You can help her focus on her life and future again.
My mom told me that when she lost her sister, life had become black and white for her and she thought she'd never be able to laugh or feel excitement again.
One day her friends took her to an amusement park, she got on a roller coaster thinking even that won't affect her. But she said it was like a jolt, her senses awakened and she realized she still has feelings. If she has hard time getting out of her mind you can try that.