oh....i am CROSS!
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- Projectile0
I smoked for 10 years and then stopped. 100% clean for a couple of years, but now i seem to have an anual 2 month relapse :s it really is difficult when people around you are smoking and you're tipsy. I really do try hard and even now it's still really difficult so you gotta understand that. Heck my mom died of fucking lung cancer cos of it and I still have relapses, that tells you how addicted you get!!
But i've never felt the need to have one at home, but i guess different strokes.
Just whatever you do, don't be a dick about it, that won't help. Human psychology 101, but it goes against our nature not to go ballistic when cross. Good to have a vent here and then just let her know you're not happy but you're not gonna get all up in her grill about it.
(basically, guilt trip the bitch into stopping :P)
- cruddlebub0
nah, i think she was surprised at how cool i was about it all. and she only smokes in the garden, i wish she would shut the back door though.
she has used pills to help her quit in the past, openly said she never wanted to quit in the past, so this was inevitable.
she is saying she'll go back to the quacks, i have just told her to do whatever she wants.
i'm not stressing either of us out with my annoyance at it all
- What does back to the quacks mean? Sorry Im from the US, just curious.CygnusZero4
- to the doctorscruddlebub
- ah ok thxCygnusZero4
- CygnusZero40
Can anyone tell me what i am CROSS means? Never heard the word cross used like that.
- monospaced0
Cross, as in, "Hot cross buns." It's an English thing.
- I know, just didnt know what it meant. Still dont. So he is a hot cross bun? Cool.CygnusZero4
- hahaahaa, cross = angry, come on!!cruddlebub
- don't make me cross is a saying said to kids... polite and non-agressivecruddlebub
- I thought it meant you felt double crossed or something like that, not angry. You didnt sound angry in your post.CygnusZero4
- annoyed more than angry. there are many levels in anger. annoyed, cross, angry, raging, murderouscruddlebub
- ideaist0
A relationship of any variety is based on trust and she has taken advantage of it.
- thankyou! all i wanted her to do was tell me.cruddlebub
- Now you told a bunch of people you dont know about it. Ill bet she didnt want that either.CygnusZero4
- ahhhh but nobody on here are important, i could of rung the fam, posted it on facebook...
cruddlebub - but i didn't.cruddlebub
- is*cruddlebub
- My girl stopped smoking cigarettes, but now smokes cigarillos once or twice a week; me, my ganja...ideaist
- albums0
I'd rather my wife smoke in the garden than my husband complain about my personal decisions to strangers on the internet.
- really? good for ol' chapcruddlebub
- your selfish needy attitude is likely why she thought it easier to smoke without informing youalbums
- it's not like she needs your permission.albums
- i never said she did, mr no it all, i just wanted her to tell me, other than catch her in the actcruddlebub
- Llyod0
cigs share the same addiction pathways as coke. Not easy to quit.
- pango0
you're making too big of a deal. she's not gonna tell you anything anymore.
don't make a fuzz about it and encourage her back to smoke free.
and definitely no need to post it on qbn to have the chance of her finding out... just saying...
- cruddlebub0
maybe i am, i have vented my frustrations on here, a meaningless process that wont cause any issues.
it'll be fine, if she smokes, she smokes.
i'm gunna buy myself a new bike.... that'll take my mind off it....
- JamesBoynton0
I am thinking of starting, boy does it look cool.
- do it! even if to lose a bit of weight! maybe i'll start too
cruddlebub
- do it! even if to lose a bit of weight! maybe i'll start too
- autoflavour0
naughty liars need to be punished.
- suggest a threesome.. or at least, some anal sexautoflavour
- maybe the lure of a packet of fags on a wire hanging from the ceiling will be enoughcruddlebub
- cruddlebub0
i mean she must of thought that we were all stupid! the kids had noticed, i had noticed, she smelt faggy?
silly bugger
- Fax_Benson0
Three times. Started again each of the last 2 summers, having quit for previous 6 months or more. Stupidest thing you can do - she'll know that.