Women these days.
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- doesnotexist0
try talking to one
- scarabin0
seriously, all you have to do is look good and act like you don't give a fuck. show social proofs like having other girls around you. don't hang with groups of men. don't compliment them. keep them guessing about whether you like them or not. treat them like you would a kid sister, not a lover. be funny. be confident. tease them. make yourself seem busy/in high demand even if you aren't. don't act like you're thinking or analyzing the situation/relationship too much.
blah blah blah
stop thinking about girls as challenges you have rise to. you're shopping. they're there for you to choose from, not the other way around. be a hunter not a beggar
- works for me!monospaced
- great advicemonospaced
- I'm sure sea_sea would agreemonospaced
- My girl friends over here tell me the same. Now I believe in specific cases.oey
- being put on a pedestal just makes them feel awkward and makes you look lonely/lamescarabin
- exactly scarabin. what I wrote before doesn't mean necessarily that you have to treat them like godsoey
- they want the pedestal thing in the relationship part where they can brag to friends, not in the beginningmonospaced
- right mono.oey
- but in Brazilian girls case, they are the hunters and you the preyoey
- wait! why would I agree mono?! LOL I get it sarcasm. ;p it better be. lolsea_sea
- CGN0
woman just want to get ahead and when they don't have their own means they just climb the latter. Don't be a tool. Treat em like a prostitute. lol
- pixellette0
Just be yourself without being bitter or too eager or too lax. Compliments are wonderful but when they are thrown at you too easily it can be creepy. It should be done with insight and proper timing - that is when you get to know them better.
scarabin is right - be confident and funny. girls can see through the BS
- colin_s0
scarabin sounds like the worst kind of douche.
how about just be yourself, hang out, see what happens? nothing wrong with honesty in life. don't try and "be" anything. if you do that, then you have to maintain whatever veil you mask yourself with after that.
i say who gives a fuck. say what you want, don't be something you're not, and who cares what you say or don't? people accept you or they don't, and the ones who judge you or reject you probably you're better off without anyway.
be excellent to one another.
- i guess i should also say, this usually only works if you're not a giant self-centered asshole.colin_s
- I agree with Scarabin, but I'm normally like this.oey
- you talked about scarabin at 66.
careful...oey - what if you are the lamest person on earth would you still want to be your self?pango
- everyone's got different game.pango
- sorry scarabin's right.
sad but true._niko
- monospaced0
lol @ colin_s
scarabin a douche? wow, what's going on today?
- qoob0
If it's so much trouble, maybe you are better off alone
- scarabin0
there's nothing douchey about it. clearly "being yourself" involves ineptitude with women so you need to "be" the sort of person that succeeds with them. this isn't a sacrifice to your personal integrity and it's not trying to be someone you're not. you're being you, but winning.
- <oey
- <monospaced
- winning <pango
- oh i see what's going on here now. lolsea_sea
- zoozoo0
dont hate the player, hate the game
- colin_s0
monospaced, usually scarabin sounds just fine but i get really annoyed with "hey how should i go about talking to women" sort of things. the predicament outlined in the post is tough, it's a weird spot, but i certainly don't think there's an answer.
be kind, be respectful, be yourself. like, who the fuck really cares beyond that? be an honorable and good person, don't worry about little nuances like "should i tease or pretend to like them or not like them" or this that and the other thing. it totally detracts from the idea of just being true.
- i never said be unkind or disrespectful. you're making shit up.scarabin
- scarabin preaches being true to oneself all the time, and i think that's what he's saying up there too.monospaced
- not even to put the finger in the ass without asking is disrespect.oey
- "look good and act like you don't give a fuck" is um... just not advice i'd take is all.colin_s
- OMG oey, you're making me laugh so hard today. Love it.monospaced
- "acting like you don't give a fuck" is his way of saying don't try so hard, be yourself.monospaced
- you have to be strong and look confident even if rejected. that-s called being a man, sometimes.oey
- exactly, monoscarabin
- thanks mono!oey
- monospaced0
69SFA
- oey0
More Charlie Sheen less cocaine...
- zoozoo0
being yourself deoesnt work because men and women are from other planets.
homosexis are from both planets or something.
- elahon0
Well, there's your problem...
- CALLES0
- guess they are fighting for zoozoooey
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- oey0
okay people, exercise time!
shave head and balls and take a shower.
dinner go to work.
see the chick I like.
deal with it.
be myself.
think before speaking and listen.
breed.breeding is very important.
taking attention to other girls.
enjoy life.
heaven is up there.
I'm here.
the world can end up tomorrow.have fun!
- goldieboy0
You never you told me you are married sadpanda... WTF?!
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO....
*heart breaks- ^_^
I like to see boys crysadpanda - Miss you heaps goldiepants... Drinks soon?sadpanda
- I'm not crying, just dust in my eyegoldieboy
- Are you back in LDN? Missing my Cali girl!goldieboy
- I am indeed. So we must celebrate my arrival with copious amounts of beer and catch up on your latest conquests.sadpanda
- Sweetgoldieboy
- ^_^