People not telling the truth
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- Doorman
Right - this girl I met...... She was well into seeing me and all the rest. She was clear that she desired to know each others as **friends**. But, she said that she likes being single - independent. However, I discovered that she is kind of paranoid (she even confessed). She is in fact desperate for a relationship. As she put the guidelines - willing to be single - I respected this rule. For some reason, she now rejects all offers of going out (as friends), saying she is too busy with work.
But, I know that in fact she has been going to the pub, b'days or else.
I dont really like people not telling the truth.
- pr20
Boo hoo! So she's not into you and instead of reading all the signals and moving on u dwell on it as if you were still in high school?
- GeorgesII0
seriously man, grow some
- drgss0
She doesnt like you, you want her to tell you that
- Doorman0
she was clear that she didnt want relationship due to the bad experience she had in the past..so, who is to blame to be paranoid?
I am fine of not having a relationship with such a person, what i think is incorrect is to reject someone by not saying the truth.
Is it that hard to say "sorry, but i found a guy and am going with him, so no time at the mo"?
- ?...fuck it. She's a liar, just move on - no big deal.babaganush
- Agree. : )
Doorman
- Ruffian0
Women...
- TheBIueOne0
She'S Just Not Into You.
- jevad0
Just curious, what do the Just Seventeen forums have to say about this predicament?
- vespa0
dude she's told you she just wants to be friends and you have been checking on whether she is going out without telling you?
you sound pretty possessive, it's no wonder she's not informing you of her every move...
- Jnr_Madison0
yes, let it go, move on... or go stealth and stalk her.
- in fact, keep going, she is just playing hard to get. Turn up every time she goes out with anyone.Jnr_Madison
- NotByHand0
I'm with Jnr on this one... be persistent, don't give up so easy. She just hasn't seen the 'real you' yet, evidently. Sounds like you guys were destined to be together, but she simple hasn't realized it.
Keep calling her, keep showing up randomly at whatever place she might be. Write and send her poems about the uniques bond between you. Put lots of pictures of her on your walls to keep you focused.
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Awwww... romance.
- boobs0
Who would want to go out with a doorman?
- vespa0
you guys are born relationship counsellors.
doorman, why not make SURE she isn't lying to you?
Set up a network of spycam surveillance and the next time she says she is too busy busy to go out with you, confront her with video evidence -- this way she will understand the extent of your affection for her and will realise that she is the lucky recipient of true love.
- boobs0
Just walk up to her and give a big kiss. See how it goes. It's the only way to find out, really.
- nadnerb0
maybe you're ugly
- mirrorball0
BIG DEAL!!! Lifes better when it's 100% your at 50% and shes at 0%
Go find a hotter chick, if you wanna make her jealous, fuck knows why but this works in her interests towards yah.
- marchelo0
She's banging the other dude bc she thought you were boring.
- robotron3k0
sounds like she's VERY bad in bed... NEXT!
- kgvs720
It seems like she's not in to you. Give it a couple days and try again, but after that you might want to fade out. Or do what I do. WHOOP THAT TRICK!
- flickster0
I think it's important to see pics.