dreams...and your parents 1919 Responses

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• threadpost

  I was up. Pretty much the entire night last night, due to insomnia as a result of an injury.
  As I was sitting here in the dark at 3am, it occurred to me I can't ever recall having a dream about my mom. Not one time I can remember have I dreamed about my mom,
  WTF does that mean?
  Do normal people dream about their mothers on a regular basis? I guess I just felt this overwhelming sense of guilt, seeing as how she is the most influential and amazing person in my life. We have a great relationship, speak on the phone a few x's/wk and see each other 6x or so/yr. (we live 1000 miles apart).
  But what does it mean that I don't dream about her? I feel incredibly guilty. I'm watching her get older and not knowing exactly what to do when she (who is single) cant take care of herself. Fcuk. anyone else trip out over what to do with their parents when they cant take care of themselves?
  And no you sick fucks, not anything weirdo freudian shit, just dreams. any dreams. It seems so wrong that I wouldn't dream about my own mother from time to time, or at least anything I can remember. maybe I dont think about her often enough to invade my subconsciousness? fuck! I dunno but its freaking me out I don't include her in my dreams!

  Jan 9, 09, 2:41 p.m. – Permalink

• CALLES

  gp to sleep

  • really? thats it? I just want to know whats normal? do most people include their parents in their dreams?– threadpost

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 2:41 p.m. – Permalink

• JayCee

  Ask Freud.

  • sorry didn't read all the way got bored– JayCee1/3

    lol– janne762/3

    i just did– janne763/3

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 2:42 p.m. – Permalink

• nadnerb

  don't feel bad, it's better than the very disturbing dreams I've had about my mom. Or just in general.

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 2:43 p.m. – Permalink

• johngrif

  what about weird oedipus rex shit?

  • appears he's already killed off the father– _salisae_

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 2:43 p.m. – Permalink

• Jaline

  I've only ever had 1 or 2 dreams about them, and it involved them not being able to hear me because I was dead. Some of the only dreams I have had that were not lucid.

  I wouldn't feel bad about it. Sometimes people do have dreams and don't remember them. Tell her how much you care about her in person and don't worry about anything else.

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 2:45 p.m. – Permalink

• ylanse

  Just don't worry...

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 2:52 p.m. – Permalink

• landock

  The relationship that we have with our mother is the most psychologically significant relationship of all. Rarely all good or all bad, our mothers
  always invoke powerful emotions. We may dream about our mothers in many different forms. She may be disguised in our dreams, and it is our job to find her in there.

  • wait AND you're from SLC? wtf is this? a sick joke? I'm from SLC.– threadpost1/3

    Im in yur internetz stealing yur dreems– landock2/3

    or maybe synchronicity is working overtime, for some unknown end.– landock3/3

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 2:58 p.m. – Permalink

• threadpost

  ^ the first part of your post I can certainly agree with. and that is exactly why I was so concerned.
  The second part is a stretch for me being a staunch pragmatic scientific methody type. However, maybe you're right? I dunno.
  I just know I felt really guilty when I came to the sudden conclusion that I hadnt dreamt about my own mother in anything I can remember. It literally scared me. It made me wonder what my true and meaningful relationship was.

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 3:03 p.m. – Permalink

• nessdog

  My mom's been in plenty of my nightmares. Count yourself blessed.

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 3:04 p.m. – Permalink

• cannonball

  sounds like you need to call your mom. I bet youll fall right asleep after.

  • I know, and in hollywood this would totally work. But I just spoke with her a few ticks ago, and still cant sleep for shiite.– threadpost

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 3:26 p.m. – Permalink

• landock

  all i know is this snow is fucking ridiculous

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 4:29 p.m. – Permalink

• blaw

  Your tone's been pretty serious. I hope things are cool.

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 4:32 p.m. – Permalink

• janne76

  have you ever heard of freud?

  • nevermind– janne76

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 4:35 p.m. – Permalink

• anxiousarms

  what kinna pills they got u on brother?

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 4:36 p.m. – Permalink

• free_

  i also worry about my mom, but i figure im the one who'll be taking care of her. my siblings aren't going to. hence the corporate job. but i did dream about her, and it wasn't pleasant. lol. but really i dont dream of her often at all. just worry when im awake.

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 4:52 p.m. – Permalink

• scarabin_net

  i don't either. is that bad?

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 5:38 p.m. – Permalink

• kalkal

  You obviously want to kill your dad and make sweet sweet love to your mother.

  • father/ yes son?/ i want to kill you/ mother, I want to... (**** you),"– search

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 5:41 p.m. – Permalink

• search

  the killer awoke before dawn, he put his boots on
  he took a face from the ancient gallery
  and he walked on down the hall
  he went into the room where his sister lived, and...then he
  paid a visit to his brother, and then he
  he walked on down the hall, and
  and he came to a door...and he looked inside

  • then he came to the fridge.. and then he... ate a bologna sandwich and then he...– scarabin_net

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 5:50 p.m. – Permalink

• _salisae_

  according to my siblings it's my turn to be my mom's favorite. it was no small feat .. this title comes with great perks!

  • I'm not sure this will happen to me, or if I want it to. At least I usually have my dad on my side! Congrats :)– Jaline1/2

    (my siblings are still at the age where they don't see the obviousness of parents and favouritism).– Jaline2/2

  

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  Dog-earJan 9, 09, 5:57 p.m. – Permalink