girlfriend to just friend – possible?
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- Complexfruit0
I think you both have to be on the same page and understand neither of you wants to continue the romantic relationship and that it will take time.
- cannonball0
for me: (time it takes to be friends with an ex) = (time we were together) x (1.7 + L)
l being the scale from 1-5 that we were in love
- EDIT (time it takes to be friends with an ex) = (time we were together) x (1.7) + Lcannonball
- meltoni0
he cheated on me, broke up with me one day after i got from my brother's wedding (outside the country) and i still ADORE the guy (at least twice a week we still talk.... work most of the times). of course it took couple years for me to manage the anger and my broken heart but it was all for the best.
actually if he hadn't cheated on me or broken up with me i would have MISSED a lot of great stuff i got from being "free".
- redrum0
yeah and most of them are friends with each other even. i don't know how this is all working out so well sometimes...
- meltoni0
i guess by staying or becoming only friends you get the best of what you had in the relationship. well... in this case only if sex wasn't only the best part.
- dog_opus0
Worked out for me really well once, and then she went off the deep end politically. It got to the point where her need to be right about politics, instead of simple mutual respect, made further contact with her intolerable. It's a shame when things work out that way, but yeah; it's definitely possible, and it's the mature thing to do if you can.
- emukid0
it is possible but really depends on the circumstances under which the said relationship comes to an end and the level of bitterness (on a scale of zero to singing The Smiths songs) at which both parties are on after the mutual termination has been agreed upon.
i've had mixed results... VERY mixed results.
- Gasping, dying, but somehow, still alive - this is the fierce last stand of all I am. (Please keep me in mind)mikotondria3
- CALLES0
pics and phone number please
- mg330
- chossy0
I FUCKING HATE YOU mg33 WHO ARE YOU WITH WHO ARE YOU WIIIIIIIIITH!!!!!.
- mg330
- chossy0
NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!
- tasty0
dont talk at all for a while - then as u dont give a hoot about her sexually you can be friends.
- or bang her once more and never speak to her againdirtydesign
- or what he said :) been there.tasty
- sea_sea0
It's hard to stay friends, unless you two are totally over each other and there are no hard feelings. it's always kinda weird though, especially if you had a very intimate relationship.
- ernexbcn0
yes, yes, no
and it's awesome
- wordsinyourmouth0
my feeling is it's possible, but definitely not right away... let it die completely before even trying to become friends with her