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- dsb
I dated someone for quite some time and recently learned via the grapevine that this person cheated on me and wasn't honest with me at the time of our break up.
I run into him fairly regularly around town. Should I confront him? Keep in mind the break up was only a month or so ago.
- CALLES0
yes... he probably think that in your eyes he's still a decent guy... make sure you know he's a piece of shit
- ninjasavant0
kick him in the junk.
- CALLES0
yes... he probably think that in your eyes he's still a decent guy... make sure he knows that you know that he's a piece of shit
CALLES
(Aug 29 07, 07:01)sorry... im way off today
- eb60
yes... he probably think that in your eyes he's still a decent guy... make sure you know he's a piece of shit
CALLES
(Aug 29 07, 07:01)Agreed. But don't let him see it get to you, just let him know you know.
- Jaline0
just make subtle remarks about it (without directly referencing it) if and when you see him again.
but if you're already not together, then.....whatever.
- OSFA0
first, please tell me you are a female...
- CALLES0
i dont know about that jaline.... why let him go easy... he deserves to to feel bad about it... if not he's going to think he's so good and slick
- Jaline0
...or just tell everyone he knows what he did.
- dsb0
Yes, I'm a female
- _salisae_0
could be gossip.
your childish title kind of lets on how much it truly effected you.
- CALLES0
give us a little backgorund... how much time together... how serious...
- ok_not_ok0
I'm sorry...I didn't mean to hurt you.
- dsb0
Wasn't meant to be childish, was just trying to grab people's attention in a request for some fast advice.
- Jaline0
To be honest, it all depends on the situation. I wouldn't go out of my way to confront him about it, but you could mention it when you see him again if he was hypocritical or just an ass during your relationship.
- dsb0
give us a little backgorund... how much time together... how serious...
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Known eachother for many years as friends, dated for nearly 2 years.
- CALLES0
ouch
- _salisae_0
er. yeah.
- TheBlueOne0
Waste of time. Why go for the drama? Do you need to satisfy your ego so much. Dude is gone and out of your life..why drag him back in? He's a shit, you know it. Good enough.
- joyride0
not worth it... move on with your life. Too many good people around to waste time with something that didn't work out.
- e-pill0
he cheats on you, and you think that confrontation after you broke up will help you...i feel you may get even more hurt than you already are...i mean he cheated on you for what reasons are you not telling us..he may fire an assualt of emotions at you that really you may not even be prepared for and may get even more hurt in the process...i mean he cheated for a reason...and now you want to know why??
fucking move on!!! or you are going to get even more hurt.