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- Witt0
ok. rand, i've lost my point. but i still think that we're losing it - so no wonder that all nice girls look askance. i hope this makes anyh sense: i was just trying to reply as of today, which is tomorrow around here.
- Witt0
damn i feel like a fool.
- Jaline0
i haven't had sex for 9 years.
Crouwel
(Mar 19 07, 17:32)I thought it was 12?
- Jaline0
Witt, I bet you could uphold nearly every conversation. Or at least talk about something worthwhile and interesting.
- cosmo0
Just a side note: some of the comments here are interesting. Because most of us don't actually know emokid. You could say that about nearly every thread here though, so whatever. But sometimes I wonder if the advice we give someone, while with good intentions, is actually the opposite of what they need to hear. Or that they actually need to change themselves. Either way, I think joyride is correct in his comment (a few posts ago).
Jaline
(Mar 19 07, 17:07)Known him for a very long time. Probably one of the nicest guy you will ever meet.
- mrdobolina0
chin up saf. ya tuff lil bastid.
- Jaline0
Known him for a very long time. Probably one of the nicest guy you will ever meet.
cosmo
(Mar 19 07, 18:05)I bet he is, cosmo.
That post was basically me thinking out loud about how much of a person's life we really know about.
It wasn't exactly directed at emokid, but thanks.
- cosmo0
posting something like that means exactly what it says.
- Crouwel0
but relationships will happen crouwel. just stop being so fucking defensive.
Witt
(Mar 19 07, 17:50)god forbid!
i am not defensive at all. haha.i am open.yet happy enough this way.
what is it with society that they cannot refrain from labelling single people as unhappy?
my grandma was an individual, she travelled all the world after her divorce, bought lots of art and books.
same for my mom.
same for me. (yet not the world)..
i am free!
ps. the sex comment wasn't meant to be a cry out of despair, it was posted there, like before, for you people to laugh at. it is true, but i can believe most -ahem- "normal" (SORRY!) people freak out at this notion.
;-)
- Jaline0
Okay.
I think mine was a valid observation.
I've never posted it in any other thread before, but I've always been thinking it, for every member (unless I know them somewhat).
- mrdobolina0
appreciate the honesty, janne. nice to see you here.
- Jaline0
I agree with your last few posts, Crouwel.
- Crouwel0
oh btw. chin up, man! do the things a free man should do.
it is all about self-confidence and reliability of your ego, in a positive and constructive way.
love yourself and love everyone and you'll be begging for less!
:)
- Crouwel0
Cheers Dobs!
- Jaline0
anyway, it's clear that I kind of suck when it comes to empathizing with people.
Lately though, I've been extra uncaring of what people think of me. If they ask for the truth, they will get exactly that from me.
Anyway, emo, I really do hope you are well now and in the future, particularly when it comes to relationships. Just give it time and most things will be better.
- Witt0
i'm not sure i can upheld anything but thanks jal. that's the very best compliment i've ever had. it is worth double coming from you. i mean it.
let's have a dinner sometime ;)
- Jaline0
haha, we're so far away from each other. But yes, we must.
- Witt0
i wasn't saying that you're not happy, dutchman. i was just saying that you could be a whole lot happier, well, if that fits ya that is.
i've been single from 2 years now and i am not liking it in any way. i feel lonely since to partake my life with someone else. i really do.
- Witt0
not so far Jaline. just a thousand dollars away.
- Crouwel0
tis ok, witt.
happiness is all defined by space, time, mindset, ambition, health etc etc....
there's no general definition of what happiness should contain.
which is good.
best to you man! :)