i am crying
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- aliceblue
I am crying for a friend who is going through so much and I can't seem to help - only let them know I am here
- jevad0
sometimes that is all you can do.
- aliceblue0
thank you i feel so all alone
- kingjulien0
I am here for all of you
- oldelpaso0
just be with your friend
-a friends presence through the toughtimes is the best thing in the world. (a friend in need is a friend indeed)- with a gd friend by your side - you wil never feel alone.
- aliceblue0
nice to know you have friends :-]
- oldelpaso0
isnt it just? :)
- aliceblue0
yes
- oldelpaso0
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-------------------------although i wish i had kingjulien's friends!!!!
who's Monika?? :)
*pls pls pls dont say gfriend!
- oldelpaso0
whats going on with your friend?
is it too much to ask?
- jevad0
absolutely. if I didn't know right now that I had my friends here for me when I need them I wouldn't know what to do with myself.
even if you can't do anything for them - just them having the knowledge that you are there can be enough.
nil desperandum!
- aliceblue0
thanks jevad I am a mess of tears
- this has seemed to release the flood gates of emotions for my mom, my grand ma...
- BonSeff0
an open ear means so much to a person with problems. good for you, and good luck to your friend!
- aliceblue0
thank you all - it means so much to me ,to know, that you care
- harlequino0
Sending you good vibes, aliceblue. Best and warmest and wishes.
And you can take it from me, we share a Tweety Pez™.
(Look at your icon, and then click my name for my homepage. :) )
- aliceblue0
harlequino .. you are special-
you have the tweeyt (too ,two)
and you made me laugh!!!
- harlequino0
Glad to provide a giggle! :)
- aliceblue0
I wanted to crawl into a ball on the floor - and cry
thank you for saving me - my floor is dusty- i might have triggered allergies :_)
- madirish0
you are helping.
to put yourself in the place of what you conceive as their pain is to give them of yourself. i would want you to do that for me.
- oldelpaso0
i dont get it..
you would want someone to suffer as you do?
to me the best thing a friend can do is be there - but be underwhelmed.
when i had my scare two years ago, the best thing I ever had was really strong a collected set of people around me that never once let me think i couldnt pull through. To them it was like it was so ridiculous, it was out of the question.
and you soon adopt this way of thinking.
I reckon the brain is the most powerful healing tool. thats why people can contract seriouses dieseases just by thinking too much about them, and miraculously heal as well.
if everyone about me was breaking down, and falling apart, it wouldnt be too long before i did the same.
so be there every step of the way but never take the burden.
I would hate for someone else to be in my position when im down
- Redmond0
Well said! :]