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- Boz
I just want to ask this, do you really have to be completely emotionally detached in order to have a meaningful relationship.
What does "I need more space or more time to myself" mean in general for you girls. Is it just a say to drive someone away that you don't like anymore or at all.
It's funny, I like myself of course, but I do invest emotions into someone I care about even to an extent that I'm willing to sacrifice some of my own things to make that person happier. These days it seems that expressing emotions towards someone burdens them.
Or am I just wrong, and it's not really like that? Maybe, I just keep meeting people (girls) like that don't really care about me enough or something and just want to RUN :)
- Crouwel0
i am forever single
- Boz0
by choice (like relationships drag you down) or just not socializing enought to meet more women?
- Crouwel0
"These days it seems that expressing emotions towards someone burdens them"
this is true.
these days you can only have sexual intercourse without any sense of emotion.
it's what i tell to the ladies once i tied them up nicely and i loosen my belt..
- Boz0
haha..
- Crouwel0
by choice (like relationships drag you down) or just not socializing enought to meet more women?
Boz
(Apr 2 06, 13:33)by choice.
- mr_snuggles0
I was hideously disfigured in a go-karting accident when I was young...
- Crouwel0
this is true.
snugs is terrible deformed, but you won't notice it because the stench will keep you way from him already.
- Crouwel0
and mi speling is terible two.
- mr_snuggles0
my goater is oozing again..
* changes bandages
- mr_snuggles0
goater = goiter
- Crouwel0
what's that smell?
*sniff *sniff
- Boz0
okay..it's lovely I see you two love each other and see each other often. Crouwel, maybe you should go wipe his goiter and help him out. ;)
- Rand0
I am more handsome than Peter Saville
- mr_snuggles0
I am less handsome than the blog..
- Crouwel0
i am as handsome as your goiter
- arohner0
Ok, here is a comic I made just for you...
http://monkeydyne.com/rmcs/openc…
Seriously, I believe that when someone says they need "space" or "time" that they are not ready for the relationship with you either at that time - or ever. At that time you are not as important to them as they are to you and they are willing to risk losing you to spend time alone (or date other people). If someone is willing to risk losing you, then they aren't as into you as they should be and you shouldn't waste your time waiting on them.
My advice to you (a woman's advice) if a woman you are dating says this to you - just accept it, and then focus on you. Do the things that make you happy, get out and have fun with your friends, meet new people, and then maybe during that "space" she needed you might eventually meet someone else who doesn't need space, or maybe she will realize after that time to herself that she misses you and doesn't need that space after all.
Only time will tell, but in the meantime just focus on you.
That's my 2 cents! :o)
- lebowski0
it means one of two things
1) they're just flat out sick of you
or
2) they want to fuck other people
- _salisae_0
generally it means precisely that .. they feel crowded. i wouldn't read much more into it.
- winter0
women like to drive you to the point when you expose yourself like a complete fool: the point when they find you pretty sensitive.
To you, that looks like escaping some secret battle. To them, that sounds like a weakness in the back of their minds.