What's worse?
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- jackfoley
If you are in a open relationship what's worse? Making out with random people all the time or only fooling around when it actually means something and you like the person?
I'm in an long distance relationship and she went out tonight, so I'm waiting to hear what she did this time. Thoughts?
- motokiss0
hahaha this is a great post
i was in a LD relationship and i found kissing random chicks when i was drunk not cheating cause it meant fuck all. plus u only live once fuck it
- jackfoley0
Yeah i guess if the roles were reversed I'd feel the same way. She tells me how much she loves me all the time so I figured that she wouldnt actually do it unless it meant something. I moved away and she still lives in the same place so she still goes out all the time. Waiting to find out what the result from tonights outing.
- gabriel20
so do you do this every time she goes out? if so perhaps there are bigger issues at play here...
- abizzyman0
move on... the LD thing doesn't work... temptation gets the best of one or the other - especially if there aren't plans for the other person to move your direction (or you to go there).
- abstrakt0
yeah man, what's wrong with you? why would you put yourself through this? here she is going out with free reign, and you're sitting on your computer wondering if she's gonna hook up... comon. go find a real girlfriend who's not going to cheat on you. you'll feel a lot better about yourself.
- abstrakt0
i mean, that's the dumbest thing i've ever heard. an "open long-distance relationship"?! what in the HELL is that?!
- Peter0
Mmm...temptation. Sweet sweet temptation.
- jackfoley0
yeah its just whenever we are able to see each other things are great. we had been together for 2 years when we were living close. it's just been the past 4 months we have lived apart and doing this whole long distance thing. we agreed we would be able to date and do whatever we wanted but she has made out with a handfull of people since. I just figured she would do stuff unless it meant something. especially since i know half the people she is making out with. on the other hand maybe im making too big a deal out of it, its only making out.
- designerror0
I had a longdistance girlfriend in Toronto once, i ditched her after i had been fooling around with other girls and gods knows what she had been doing with Derek in town.. it really hurt to call her up and say bye bye!, because i really liked her, but why go on with something that is doomed to break..
longdistance relationships = 0% chance of lasting
- abstrakt0
the fact that this is bothering means you don't want a long distance relationship. i don't see who would want an open LD relationship other than someone who doesn't wnat a relationship. for the sake of your emotional stability i'd look for something a little closer to home. whatever though, if you get a little bummed out or worried, that's good for art.
- gabriel20
isn't being in a long-distance, open relationship the same as being single? sounds more like you guys are hook-up friends than a couple...
- abstrakt0
yeah that's what i'm saying
- designerror0
word gab!
call her up, and tell her you just wanna be her fuckbuddy like the rest of the people you know she is making out with..
don't mix emotions into it, if it's just a lay from time to time
- jackfoley0
yeah maybe you are right. i guess just that fact that when we lived in the same town and we were exclusive for 2 years and talked about being together a long time it made me think we might eventually get married. like i said even though we said we would be allowed to see other people, i didnt think we would do it unless we seriously liked the person. to me it hurts more that she is just doing it for no reason other than to just have fun.
- BobaFetus0
Open relationships make the Vatican cry.
- toe-knee0
if i was seeing a girl and she made out (what exactly does that mean?) with people i knew i could never hit it again. fuck that
- jackfoley0
made out = french kiss, kissed using tongue, etc.
- ozhanlion0
give her a breath, she still loves you
- shellie0
kissing is kissing... making out is when boobies get touched. and when boobies get touched.. someone always goes below the belt. making out basically means everything before sex when youre an adult. face it.
- lifeinsodium0
the main difference between kissing and making out is the duration really. there is a time limit of lets say 15 minutes - once that is crossed, it is officially making out.