exgirlfriend flashback
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- jgrafx
sitting here, have to wait til end of job, watching my mac copying files from a to b, recieving sms from my ex... senseless, useless, stupid stuff. and she knows it reaches me... damn.
any medicine? no, i wont wank, i wont find a new one so far (i dont want to)... daaaamn. thought i could handle it. we both cracked it up... and now she wants to be the "moral better one". eeeeh.
- save0
cut off all contact, harsh but it works!
- swollenelbow0
*ignore
- jevad0
yep - cold turkey mang - change all your phone numbers
- jgrafx0
changing numbers seems a nice idea. even if it makes a mess in my life. but i cant block cause its sms and my old celly wont allow me to delete -- i have to start reading it anyway... damn!
but i fight againts myself NOT to answer, otherwise i am a real part of the game, not only the annoyed one!
- BeachBoy0
Shes messing with your head - ignore and bury yourself in your work
- jevad0
"but i fight againts myself NOT to answer, otherwise i am a real part of the game, not only the annoyed one! "
not related to wendell are you?
lol
- jgrafx0
nope jevad, i am not. but boys will be boys :-D
- ApeGrope0
Yeah I've recently been through that crap :(
The best yet hardest thing to do is to ignore her and keep busy with other stuff!
Get new hobbies or something!
- jgrafx0
wohaaa, i am not alone in any case. think i should beat my homepage til it works. spending the hours messed while discussing with her for new php crap. jep.
thanx boys. feels better. :-/ anyway!
- BeachBoy0
"beat my homepage" - funny term for wanking, but I like it, may I use it in comic scenarios?
- k0na_an0k0
cut off all ties. tell her you're done and to stop trying to stay in contact. tell her when she calls you will no longer pick up and she's been blocked from your email. or just tell her you started seeing someone else and to stop calling.
- imp0
I can see why she left you...
Dont be such a bitch
- rasko40
next time just text back saying, "this is not jgrafx, he is no longer available"
then when she phones and she will, prepare you most awesome deep devil voice, and just reply to her "there is no jgraf, there is only Zeul, bow before your new leader, OR BE MUTILATED"
or just pretend that you're a member of a cult and you had to change your name to Mohammed, really spin her out but be cool like you're happy.
But than I'm a twisted mind fuck so...
- shaft0
Be nice to her. If she calls you tell her you'd love to see her but you are a very busy man, you have no time at all. Tell her you'd call her back once you get some slack.
- _salisae_0
that's harsh imp. you really don't know enough to say that. as the ex who wants to get back it's been more difficult for him b/c we decided to be friends. it's best to cut it off until you've both moved on.
- save0
or just get a new phone.......
- jgrafx0
not seeing is hard. the prob is: we were friends for a long period (same background, same parties, even later same city district -- means same bars and clubs), and on top of that later we decided to put the relationship. now this is gone, its ok, it was necessary. but: the rest is still there. i cant break away from my beloved city and she either. i dont want to be in a playground when entering a club. and i dont want to run away. all i ask for is:stopping, and moving it back to a kinda professional level -- if this is possible. no heartbreaks any more to both of us. this wont change anything. but she's still running round me!
- tymeframe0
avoid your old places and her calls for a few months.
she'll get teh idea
cold turkey is where it's at.
come hang in dallas with us for a while ;-)
- sputnik0
you can change numbers and block interweb communication, but what it all comes down to is you.
be above it. ignore, filter to trash, don't answer calls, delete massages without listening. she'll tire soon enough.
good luck! you'll find better :)
- imp0
"Hold my drink bitch"