how does it end?
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- toastie
How have your long-term relationships usually ended? I'm not talking about some person you dated, where you can just break up. I'm talking about a person that becomes a part of you.
- Sep0
Slow and painfully. Comming back together, split up (repeat x5).
Trying to remain friends, ending up in bed, deciding a clean break was best, failing miserably,
and keeping all that up for five months.Aaaah. Those memories....
- ********0
once you realise that's it, its finished and there's nothing left in you, walk away. never look back.
to me the rest, the going back and forth, will only serve to create more painful memories and ugly moments, thus making a really bad situation much, much worse.
save yourself that agony and give yourself a real shot at a future with someone who is clearly not the one you are with now.
sounds harsh, but for me it has proved to be not the only way.
- ********0
sorry, last part "proved to be the only way". first day in new fingers.
- mg330
Move to a different city.
- woodyBatts0
It nends in tears, it always ends in tears... :'(
- brooke0
The first time wasn't too bad. I was young & he was stupid.
The second was very painful and unnecessarily drawn out. I was cruel to him because I was unhappy & searching for answers. But I got what I deserved in the end. We were friends and lovers again after the dust settled, but I think in the end we both realized we were going in different directions.
Everything has basically worked out now, though, for the better, I think. I hope. Sounds like he's happy & so am I.
- GreedoLives0
it's a process of attrition. my last relationship had to get to the point where we hated each other in order to break it up.
sad but true.
but before that, i got like a year's worth of break-up sex.
- ********0
it ends like this: 'you come in the world alone, you're leaving it alone'. Whomever you happen to meet along the way is great. :)
- nessdog0
How have your long-term relationships usually ended?
They've always ended differently...
My ex has just moved (30 mins ago) to London. We split up about 3 months ago, but had to live out the contract we had with our flat in Leeds. Bad idea. It's just hit me since he left, that I've possibly lost my best friend ever. awww. I feel sad. He's rad though... I really hope we'll stay friends. (hello bmxboy if you read this).
- jox0
It ends in evil laughter, always evil laughter.
- ********0
Muhaahaaahahahhaa. Like that one jox?
- jox0
No, it usually has more echo, Jaz. Try again!
- ********0
ok. like this: Muuuuuuuuuuuuuhaaaaaaaaaaaaahaaa...
ROFL~!
- nessdog0
MMWWwwwwUUuuUUUUUUaaaaHHHHHHhhhA...
- jox0
Nuh-uh. I mean, you're both pretty close, but it just doesn't feel right. Give it a little more practise.
- nessdog0
Show us jox.
- jox0
*ahem* alright... hold on, I just need a minute to prepare...
ok, ok.. i got it..MWWWWHAAAAH HAAAAAHHH AHHHHAAAHH AAAAHHH AAAAHHH AAA... aaaah....hhhhaaa.... h ... ha.. ha
See? Notice the difference? I don't laugh like a little e-thug, I am seriously EVIL! Now you go!
- dave_bxcr0
it feels like somebody died.
thats the closest i can describe it.than you move along thinking one night stands are the best thing that could happen to you.
than you got really scared by the fact you did something stupid and is called HIV positive and you leave the one night stands for others.
it takes six months to get final proof you're not HIV but keep on doing stupid stuff.
until you are perfectly calm and all the questions you had sound a bit odd you might meet someone with the most beatiful smile in the world who thinks youre funny and wants to spend lots of time with you. : )
- nessdog0
That was TEH.
Ok here goes. Deep breath. Squint and slit the eyes, dagger in hand, frothing at the mouth...
MWWWWUUUHAAAAH HAAAAAHHH AHHHHAAAHH HEEEEEEEHAAHAAaaaaHHAAAAAA. *choak OOOOOOOOHAHAHAHAAH. *spit MWUahahahaHHAAAahaha
*death stare *stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab stab.le fin.
- ********0
on that note, you can never judge where a box has been in the past, so don't act like you can. I know what your thinking, most guys think they can judge it. HIV is scary.