so im gettin drunk
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- beingdevious
just ended a three year relationship.. my first kiss girl. my first time girl....my first everything girl. its over. its all over. and im sitting on my computer getting toasted. i just opened up a bottle of chataue sardy
is that what you normally do after a breakup?
a really hard one.
- BonSeff0
2 words
boobie bardont walk
run
run to an atm
pull out 60 bucks
hang out at stage 3
- versa0
ahh man...hard to say if that's good or bad since i don't know the situation, but i have been in about 10 different truly serious relationsips and whenver i am in that state of hurt, i honestly find that nothing is better than a crazy adventure road trip, or even bigger trip, but to somewhere with alot going on and is mad fun
maybe go to the city, spend some money on yourself, and meet new people... don't create alot of lonely down time, and ironically time still is doing its healing stuff in the background...
- mr_flaco0
3 words: Jumbo's Clown Room
- blakablaka0
why did it end?
fights?
did you cheat?
did she?
dull sex?
family conflict?
healing methods depend on your answer my friend.- good questions?
did she do anal?
into fisting <- very popular74LEO
- good questions?
- beingdevious0
shes pyscho, had me arrested on false charges. her parents are nuts and pretty much influenced the entire situation.
needless to say, last night at this time i was in a bunk in county jail.
i was bonded for 750 at 2:30pm today
- blakablaka0
you'll be back in between her legs in no time my friend
think about her laying down in bed at night alone. those nostalgic sad thoughts of you laying there with her. if it was false, and you were innocent, she will realize this and eat herself inside for ending something that wasn't meant to end.
you follow?but what you can do for now, is maybe write her a letter, or listen to some good r&b.
go get a tattoo tomorrow. maybe something that flows with "a new beginning".
you follow?
- nuggler0
Getting drunk can be a blast any time, but don't feel obligated just because 'it's over'. Also, don't be sure it's over just because she's psycho. My wife's crazy nuts but we're happily married 13 years next week! True, she's never had me thrown in jail but she's thrown a lot of dishes in my direction and we've had our ups and downs.
They asked Socrates why he chose such a pain in the ass for a wife. he replied:
I follow the example of the rider who wishes to become an expert horseman: "None of your soft-mouthed, docile animals for me," he says; "the horse for me to own must show some spirit" in the belief, no doubt, if he can manage such an animal, it will be easy enough to deal with every other horse besides. And that is just my case. I wish to deal with human beings, to associate with man in general; hence my choice of wife. I know full well, if I can tolerate her spirit, I can with ease attach myself to every human being else.
- beingdevious0
ha! im never getting back with that crazy beyach. you dont put me in jail and expect me to forgive..sorry i cant get laid somewhere else...i dont need that hippo squishing my skinny arse! did i mention she gained 100lbs since we moved to a new apt
?its over, and stays over!
- Keep remembering she had you arrested, thats bullshit man! No one does that to someone they love, shes a psycho!grafisk
- sexypixel0
the first cut is the deepest.
- Fher0
Get a new haircut
eat fruits for breakfast
and please stop saying to yourself how much does it hurts, that wont take you anywhere.Welcome to life, almost everyone goes thru that, almost.
Get happy becouse your free now and look for the true love.
- Peter0
Get her drunk too,
kiss,
make up,
celebrate with a drink
- brundlefly0
don't get drunk
this seems a little too intense emotionally for you....drinking will just lead to something stupid.
spend the first week sober, plan a proper drunk with some buddies, and bonseff boobie bar. Spend the time to really figure out what you need to change to be rid of her proper, alcohol will just lead you back.
get your footing back.
- mrdobolina0
plot revenge
- jox0
Saying time heals is such a cliche, weird thing is though - it does.
- mrdobolina0
if she threw you in jail it should be quite easy to find someone better.
- beingdevious0
so im having a party tonight...
hehe, well im supposed to be graduated, but because i was in jail, i failed the last class and didnt graduate because of her. the party is for graduation, but its more of a freedom party,you know..get drunk and fuck.
shes never coming back in my life again, and im so freakin happy to say that. besides, she moved back into her parents house, 2 hours away. thank you lord. but i did get trashed last night, and tonihgt again. sucks i have to work tomorrow though.
- Make sure you take all her shit, and box it up asap! Get that girl away from your thoughts and go party!grafisk
- Nxn0
fuck it man, kick back, stick some heavy music on, drink,smoke, and get fucked up.
peace.
- jevad0
"Cuts like a knife - but it feels so right."
Bryan Adams
- JazX0
I'm assuming from your original post your youngish, early to mid- twenties if this was your first girl. All I can say is to let it happen and you'll FOR SURE get over it. In fact, within a month you'll feel better. It's not that you'll completely forget about her, it's just not always meant to work out between humans. It's natural IMO. It makes you mentally tougher anyway.
- stewart0
jail?!
man, the worst thing ever happened to me was my first QBN flag last week!