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    I recently lost my father and after having lost my mother about 10 years ago I'm feeling a sense of loneliness I've never experienced before. We were extremely close, honest, and respectful of each other and I desperately miss talking with my friend. He too was a solitary man who enjoyed his own company and always counseled me to be sure I liked myself and to be confident in my own decisions as I have to live my life as I want, as he's living his, and others theirs. I'm fortunate to have experienced such a bond.

    Grief is a solitary pain and this one cuts deeply.
    So it goes, the wheel keeps turning.

    • that's a fortunate experience, even more fortunate perspective. not everyone had your positive interaction. sharing helps other maintain hope. celebrate him.imbecile
    • I can assure you that good food and drinks work miracles sometimes. Some dick will always appear, ignoring them is enough ;)OBBTKN
    • ^Argh! Sidenote for previos post, sorryOBBTKN
    • Sorry for your loss :(OBBTKN
    • With time, grief has the capability of becoming lighter. What a beautiful bond, thank you for sharing. <3sea_sea
    • <3Horp
    • HugsSimonFFM
    • Very heavy read, I’m so sorry for your loss.Ramanisky2
    • I feel you whatthefunk... I lost my dad about 8 weeks ago, and I'm having a hard time wit it too.exador1
    • Sending love. Lost my pops back in April. If you ever need to talk, hit me up.stoplying
    • The fact that you called him a friend is what cuts deep. I'm so sorry for your loss, and you aren't alone. So it goes.garbage
    • <3 Thanks all, sincerely!whatthefunk

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