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I met someone, we had three lovely days together, and then they went back to the US. First time I met someone where I felt it really could develop further.
We still write and I plan to go visit once they have settled in after a year abroad. Lots of thoughts though, is it just me who has all these feelings? What if they are reciprocated? Would I be willing to move to the US, or would they be willing to uproot and move here?
Guess its small steps for now and see where it goes (if anywhere). But at least I now know I can develop feelings for someone else after my partner passed away.
- wish you the best manpango
- thank youNutter
- they?oey_oey
- That last sentence is heavy, and quite honestly brave. You know who doesn't make it through what you're going through?garbage
- People who are afraid to ask these questions. Stay strong.garbage
- That sounds wonderful, Nutter! Take things as they come, and if nothing develops from this, be kind to yourself. You're coming off a really hard period ...Continuity
- ... in your life, and it's normal to be feeling like this. You can definitely be proud of yourself for coming this far, though! It's great to see that you'veContinuity
- ... not forgotten to live your life.
<3Continuity - who is we? Are you into a polygon relationship?milfhunter
- oxoxcanoe
- pics?drgs
- I'm with oey and milf... They?? I've lost something ;)
But srly. I'm happy for you, take time, you deserve to love and be loved again, hugs.OBBTKN - They?crazyprick
- Don't overthink. Enjoy and let it develop.Longcopylover
- I'd definitely say this stuff to her. Assuming you're my age, life's too short to ignore true love/passion.monospaced
- good for you. hope it works out or, in the least, helps you find your waySquiddy
- Yooooooooooooo!necromation
- Sounds nice. But process everything first. My ex partner lost her husband to cancer and we got together 2 years after. A lot hadn't been processed. Not beingfadein11
- negative, but it's a very complex situation. As I'm sure you know.fadein11
- sorry, I'm lost is it they as in a couple, a person with a child or a they as in the pronoun?oey_oey
- If it's a pronoun I will laugh my black ass off.crazyprick
- I think he met a girl, but she was married, so after their fling they (her and her husband) went back to the US_niko
- But it sounds like the husband’s into it since they might be willing to uproot and go to wherever nutter is. Juicy stuff!_niko
- For those who are fixated on pronounce. Why do you care?pango
- @pangz You're not meant to take crazyprick seriously. Ignore the little boy in the room.garbage
- Its nothing as juicy as some suggest. But I'm glad I'm not completely dead inside.Nutter
- garbage, you faggy prolapse, I'm not the only person who asked about "they". You got owned like a little bitch.crazyprick
- flol, faggy prolapse? Is this what happens when a 14 year old has writer's block?garbage
- Your unintentional comedy is that it's great to watch you flail and try so hard in a place where nobody likes you.garbage
- It would be different if this were some subreddit, but this a small community that you've gone out of your way to find people that don't give a fuck about you.garbage
- It's hilarious to me, so please keep going. You've still not made that youtube channel, btw.garbage
- That last sentence really makes all the difference in this post. I met a couple of those 'maybe' girls while travelling. I hope you find happiness.BuddhaHat
- Garbage, you lost a long time ago, but keep on being an embarrassment. You will always be a talentless loser nobody smelly cunt. Remember that.crazyprick
- It takes 5 seconds of my day to occupy your mind.garbage
- Remember thatcrazyprick