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    Are you guys friends with your exes?

    There has to be a really strong connection for me to stay friends with an ex.

    The last girl I used to date treats me like a weekend BF when she's in town. We would hang out like we used to, go to dinner, grab drinks, go back home, Netflix & chill, and sleepover. But the rest of the time I'm in the friendzone when she's back home, with little to no conversations except for small talk about her job.

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    • No, women seem to get over me very quickly.DRIFTMONKEY
    • ^ lol, sorryMaaku
    • Sounds like you want something more from your ex.pango
    • ^ She knows thatMaaku
    • You want fun or you want more? Unless you want to get back together, I'd say stick with fun.pango
    • You have to cut it off clean. All in or all out - no hedging. A hang-around ex is going to concern any potential new partner and ruin your chances at a real GF.monNom
    • only with one ex. but we stayed away from each other for a few years. now we're just friendsdmay
    • One of my ex decided to move to middle of no where. Yukon.... I didn't want to. But we still hang out whenever she is in town.pango
    • Sounds like you're being used. Amirite?robotron3k
    • nah. nah.utopian
    • An oddly timely post. One of my exes just spent a couple days at my place (she's about to move across the country and wanted to say goodbye to our dog).garbage
    • I talk to her still regularly, but we realized things weren't going to work out. It was very strange to cook a big dinner with an ex and the gf..garbage
    • ..in a crowded kitchen, but it was actually a good night. They actually get along more than I would like. Like I was getting my balls busted in stereo.garbage
    • say good bye the dog. Wink wink.pango
    • It depends, i tend to keep good relationship with the ones i had a special connection.
      But i'm in no girl "friendzone", i friendzone them. :D      ApeRobot
    • @pango Psssh that dog moved with me years ago. He's the homie. Do we have a dog of the day thread?garbage
    • no. i call bull, she actually want to say good bye to dog.pango
    • I used to bone my exes, yes.section_014
    • Yes @Robo, definitely being used....Now she's mad because I'm "making it hard for her to be friends". Serious Lee.Maaku
    • I like her style.sea_sea
    • No jokes tho.. You have to cut it off if you can't play by her new rules. She clearly doesn't want to be serious but likes your company and the sex.sea_sea
    • She also sounds selfish and out of touch with reality. All this "you're making it hard to be friends" bs is her throwing a tantrum because she's exposed.sea_sea
    • ^ It does, thank you.Maaku
    • best remedy for now, is make yourself "busy" with another chick every time she decides to come around. good luck maaku.sea_sea
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