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  • sofas2

    Domestic violence against men
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Do…

    ^ Whether the content is true or not, it seems like there isn't a lot of research regarding it so I assume there isn't much money in the field.

    This blog post references some articles-
    http://www.aeesq.com/2017/03/23/…

    There are few paralel articles in different languages, also regarding more general violence against men
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vi…

    • I suffered from a abusive marriage. There is no help for me. Your laughed at and humiliated. You cant get out. I had to through her off me once and if there ismugwart
    • an argument I'm accused of abuse.mugwart
    • the documentray redpill goes into this well. 1 in 3 women suffer domestic but 1 in 4 men do.mugwart
    • memories are flushing out! i can vouch that I experiences a bit of the report. She would drink & try to start a fight. As a man you can not report this.mugwart
    • Your left with two possibilities - one not hit back & suffer in silence & degrade yourself or two fight back and be a cunt and get reported for domestic...mugwart
    • I'm sorry to hear. Shit is fucked up. Also I assume shelters for men are scarce to non-existingsofas
    • there is only one in America. Don't think anything here (UK).mugwart
    • I didn't read this but it seems relevant
      http://dvturningpoin…
      sofas
    • Great that research (though limited) is being done on this. I feel it is a silent paramedic.mugwart
    • Might be tin hat, but I think it's being silenced on purposesofas
    • ^ agreed. Then again what is not tin hat these days.
      I see it as a corruption of both masculinity and femininity.
      mugwart
    • Suffered from it as a boy for years—sexual and physical—didn't stop till I got hurt in an unrelated accident which blessedly (ironically) put an end to it...PonyBoy
    • ... as the rapey fucks no longer had me at their disposal. Prob is I suffered emotionally and lashed out as a child and was then OVER disciplined...PonyBoy
    • ... instead of getting any help (because nobody knew what had happened). As time moved on (in my teens) I asked for / searched for help but did not...PonyBoy
    • ... receive any as my own family either didn't believe me or know what to do (they apologize now that I'm in my 40's)... but I think at the end of the day...PonyBoy
    • ... it was all do the fact I wasn't female (take that as you will). I was told to 'man up' at times... I was even SHUNNED as some thought I might...PonyBoy
    • ... be 'dangerous' or 'perverted' in some sort of way. My point is Men / Boys are def. hurt / fucked with... but so many do not get the love / help they need.PonyBoy
    • Late in my 20's I found a good Psychologists and also some good reliable loving friends / people... but they weren't family. :(PonyBoy
    • fuck. that is terrible. I some times get a feeling that boys/men are considered simpler, tougher, need less care, are less reliable and their purity isn't assofas
    • important to guard.sofas
    • I've often thought men are historically considered the expendable side of the species... who's sent to war (to die) first? Who goes down w/the boat?PonyBoy
    • I agree that that boys/men are often seen as less vulnerable / in need of care and more expendable - a feeling more likely to be propogated by other menFax_Benson
    • and therein lies the problemFax_Benson
    • or part of it. I dunno.Fax_Benson
    • fuck Pony...mugwart
    • I was emotionally abused and bullied my my family as well. Boy does it fuck with your head.mugwart
    • It doesn't really go away... you can get help learning to cope in your head so you can manage life... but it's always therePonyBoy
    • ;-( ... tell me about it brother!!mugwart

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