blog
blog
Out of context: Reply #64841
- Started
- Last post
- 75,627 Responses
- pinkfloyd0
Disclaimer: The following post will sound very shallow, but I need advice in dealing with this.
Do you guys find yourself being meaner to less attractive women? Would you feel repelled if she was a coworker and she kept flirting with you but you're stuck working with her? I'm feeling a bit drained by this.
Again: DISCLAIMER: The following post will sound very shallow, but I need advice in dealing with this.
- pinkfloyd they want the same thing as the attractive ones, it's always good if you're honest.sted
- like: i love what you do because it makes me feel special but I'm attracted to chicks with big round bottomsted
- it just feels like a lot of negative energy, ughhhpinkfloyd
- never ever in your fucking life say to a woman @ your workplace that you don't find her attractive.sted
- I haven't but I just don't want to have to interact with her. Finding out she likes me just makes me feel repelled.pinkfloyd
- oh that's an other story, learn more her, it can't be nothing wrong with that. and be honest about this. maybe you can learn some aspects of her personalitysted
- you never imagined.sted
- would it be any more awkward if you just gave her the little pinkfloyd and then called it a day?capn_ron
- ain't little on my side yo. Wearing tight dresses and push up bras around me just has an opposite effect on mepinkfloyd
- It's like the more she tries, the more I feel repelled. I really feel bad about thispinkfloyd
- To be fair, she's an easy going good personpinkfloyd
- maybe you can just be happy she's interested and just be nice to her without crossing lines. she should get the idea eventually.capn_ron
- oh geez, get drunk and have fun with her, that's what this is all about not the stuff she's wearing :Dsted
- pinkfloyd one of my best relationships was because of a workplace chick who went bad to get my attention :)sted
- Pics or it didn't happen sted!capn_ron
- fake wedding band. or say you have a gf if it comes up. otherwise just friendzone her. chicks do that shit all the timescarabin
- are you posting this just so you can say some chick at work is into you again? it doesn't seem like you really want advice, that's allmonospaced
- mono, this is QBN, we give advice if they are asking or not. now what would you advise?capn_ron
- after:before
http://i.imgur.com/P…sted - tell her you're gayPonyBoy
- Yeah, tried to make it clear by saying I don't date coworkers. She would retaliate with a push up bra and fake eye crease stickers.pinkfloyd
- fuck mepinkfloyd
- Mono, if I wanted to show off, I would be talking about other matters.pinkfloyd
- You fucktardpinkfloyd
- sted FTW!capn_ron
- Be nice, be pleasant, just don't flirt.Hayoth
- yeah, I really don't want to hurt her feelingspinkfloyd
- Tell her you're gay.
Lolpango - Why do you get bothered if she wears push-up bra or tight dress? Maybe that's just how she likes to wear.pango
- you might inspire her to put more effort in yourself, which you can't do anything about. Just ignore it.shellie
- sometimes frindzone is hard to get across to people, but they'll get it in time. If she's a pleasant person otherwise...shellie
- then take every opportunity to tell her you're interested in other people. "What did I do this weekend? A few dates."shellie
- if she invites you to lunch, go with her. But treat her like you would a bro. Talk about other girls and other things. She'll get it.shellie
- good advice shellie.pinkfloyd
- also, delayed lol @ wearing a fake wedding ringpinkfloyd
- fucktard? you don't want advice ... you already gave it to yourself: don't be rude to her just because she's not attractive to you.monospaced
- There's no advice that can be given to you if your problem is how you struggle to not be mean to someone based on their looks. Sorry.monospaced
- I guess the advice is to not be so shallow. Not sure that's something someone can just decide to do though right?monospaced
- Now all I want to know is what you would talk about if you were trying to show off. Please.monospaced
- you forgot to read my disclaimerpinkfloyd
- I really miss the qbn ignore functionpinkfloyd
- I'm not the type to kiss and tell. If I was trying to show off about women, I would be talking about women I sleep with. Not a silly work related crush.pinkfloyd
- Mono, you always gave me a bad vibe and you really live up to it.pinkfloyd
- You're like the annoying kid in class always trying to correct everyone. What's your insecurity?pinkfloyd
- Oh yeah, that's right, you're a failed sociology major who needs to prove a point because of his lacking in the creative field who has no real business being inpinkfloyd
- Go dissect the anatomy of the letter Tpinkfloyd
- just say, you're cool and everything but,
'Ooh, I need a dirty woman
Ooh, I need a dirty girl'_niko - lolpinkfloyd
- And so it begins! The battle of New Yorkers!
http://img.michaelja…pango - Ya dude think of it as that's just her. And has nothing to do with you. Treat her professionally like any other coworker.pango
- jealousy is very ugly with a stinky dad bod beta male with fat mono cheeks. Notice he's the only one who can't give an advicepinkfloyd
- Well clearly you have no idea who I am then because I am not fat and I am a very successful creative and I'm not in any way jealous of you.monospaced
- Not sure where you get the creepy vibe from me when you're the one posting about an inability to be nice to someone who isn't attractive.monospaced
- I'm also in no way trying to be right. Not here or elsewhere. My advice is the same you gave yourself twice in the disclaimer. Don't be a shallow asshole.monospaced
- And stop fixating on me. I did nothing but ask a question. You have what you consider a serious issue here and are attacking me for no reason at all.monospaced
- Feeling drained by this? That's what's creepy. Creepier than your failed attempt to figure out who I am.monospaced
- Weird... New Yorkers don't seem to get Along. Mono, pinky, yurimon.pango
- So good luck trying hard to not be mean to someone who isn't good looking enough for you. Maybe you'll find the advice to help you get through the ordeal.monospaced
- I don't even know what his beef is with me. It's not like I've ever done anything to pink to deserve his hatred.monospaced
- He probably assumes I'm the one downvoting him. I'm not.monospaced
- tldr;pinkfloyd
- once a cheater, always a cheaterpinkfloyd
- you even cheat on the internet with getting your facts all wrongpinkfloyd
- or weed damagepinkfloyd
- cheat?monospaced
- ......fuck tard againpinkfloyd
- what are you talking about?monospaced
- I'm not a cheater in any sense of the word, if that's what you're saying.monospaced
- You have horrible memorypinkfloyd
- As usualpinkfloyd
- refresh my memory thenmonospaced
- ok cheaterpinkfloyd
- you must have me confused with someone elsemonospaced
- nopinkfloyd
- lol, show me what I supposedly forgot then, enlighten memonospaced
- nopinkfloyd
- Please do, this sounds hilarious. And by the way mono, you are fat, you have a double chin kiddo, no use in denying itterry_cloth
- And pinkfloyd, flirt back, it's harmless, but when she tries to take you to lunch etc. remind her of your conviction to not date co-workersterry_cloth
- You can reciprocate mild flirting without leading her on too badly. Don't go hurting her feelings by outright rejecting her though, she is playing a game tryingterry_cloth
- To use you to bolster her self confidence, let her have that, it doesn't have to go anywhere and you don't have to make her feel like shit over itterry_cloth
- In other words, sex isn't everything to women, sometimes they just want someone to reaffirm thier worth and have no intention of seducing youterry_cloth
- uhhhhh terry's talking....pango
- Do you have anything to add pango, I'm sure you know all about women from frequenting the hairdresser's and whatnotterry_cloth
- mono mentioned cheating with an ex before. he always denies stuff, and the qbn search function sucks so bad hahapinkfloyd
- i don't like it when she leans in, bends over on a tight dress, arches her back with a push up bra, i'm sounding gay and all but it's really repulsivepinkfloyd
- i was flattered at first, but it gets annoying later on.pinkfloyd
- I just find it strange mono is the only one with a problem with this postpinkfloyd
- he's so gay for me but i'm really not into himpinkfloyd
- Terry. I wouldn't know. i cut my hair once a year. (maybe twice). Is that where you know everything about women? lol
keep trying!pango - man, if mono was my coworker and wore a wig, i'd freak outpinkfloyd
- lol, says the guy who is complaining about the fact that he struggles to be nice to unattractive women, and posts about people being jealous of himmonospaced
- But the statement, "once a cheater, always a cheater" isn't a fact, it's just a saying, and it's a piss poor reason for hating on me.monospaced
- huh? i'm not hating on you because you cheated before. you're facts are so off, that's why you're always bombarding qbn with notespinkfloyd
- dude, just ignore me and we'll all be goodpinkfloyd
- you're like my qbn spam ;)pinkfloyd
- it's totally like thanksgiving dinner in the side notes.pango
- lolpango