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Stayed at home tonite, watched Sherlock and prepare home made chicken burritos. Girfriend went to a party with her co-workers. 4:00am a complete stranger wakes me up, touching my shoulder. "Sorry maqui, I'm Sebastian, your girl passed out". Jump out of bed, go to the living room and there she is laying in the floor, unconsious. I thank Sebastian, call him an Uber, and proceed to the assistance of the brain-dead girlfriend. I pur her under the shower (savage mode, rough), put her in the bed, and she starts puking, semi unconsious. Again enters savage-mode and I kind of stick my fist inside her mouth, while pouring a bottle of cold water over her head and neck to wake her up. All this happened in 30 mins. Now I'm sitting on the floor next to her with a coffee keeping an eye on her breathing. I'm afraid she may choke again any time. Beautiful night ahead. Since it's the second time this shit happens (first time was in april), I'm considering kicking her out as soon as she wakes up from this stupid shit. Maybe it's the adrenaline/anger/deception... We'll see.
- see if she learned anything. if not and its no fun give her the bootdeathboy
- In my 35 years I never passed out to the point I risked my life. I'm SO pissed...maquito
- Patterns...Hayoth
- I thought first time was the last... And I'm not the kind of person that waits for strike 3.maquito
- @hayoth yep..maquito
- your call seems like u already know what u need to do. more fish in the see and all thatdeathboy
- I've only blacked out twice. Drugs... Not even once.
Twice in this case...pango - I guess I'm more of an enabler... I would have just laugh at how much she sucks....pango
- @pango It's hard to laugh at her when are she might choke and asphyxiate :/maquito
- I mean when she wakes uppango
- Nar - after a bad marriage with a heavy drinker -- not worth it.mugwart
- people don't blackout because they're happy. she has a problem. sorry you're dealing with this. you did the right thing, though.Gnash
- if she's worth it, try and shift your anger to compassion. otherwise, like mugs said, it's not worth it.Gnash
- She didn't do it to you. Sounds like she needs help. Do you love this woman? At first, reading this... I thought it was some prose, there was a little disconnecbklyndroobeki
- "Girfriend went to a party", "proceed to the assistance of the brain-dead girlfriend" ...this is the disconnect. Have you ever spoken with her about this?bklyndroobeki
- Sounds super dangerous. She's putting herself in very vulnerable situations. If she loves you back, she might need to go sober. Blackout/passed out after 25 isshellie
- a problem. I worry for girls like that may be sexually assaulted. At the end of the night, predators look for women who don't quite have it all together is scashellie
- 2dn time, in a few months, maquito that's not good at all.sted
- Sometimes people forget to eat dinner before going out, then the drinks hit them. if it ever happens again, video it then show to her later. she will puke againrobotron3k
- I think I'd be in a dilemma as to whether to punch Sebastian in the face or buy him a beer to say thanks. Initial reaction would be the former. Correct = latterset
- Not just putting herself at risk when a complete stranger is waking you up in your own home.IRNlun6
- sorry maq, sounds shitty. you sure someone didn't slip something in her drink? i had that happen to me once, luckily i had a friend with me who helped me home.sea_sea
- if not, what's not ok is she would allow herself get to that point. everyone usually learns how to manage their intake, unless of course drinking's a problem.sea_sea
- once had a gf like that. passed out on a weekly basis :) didn't bother me that much bcs i didn't see any future in the relationship. dumped her after 2 months.renderedred
- got fed up being a drunk-sitter. alcohol can be a very big problem for some people.renderedred
- sucks dude. handle this shit, she needs to know this is not the way a relationship works. she needs to grow up or gtfo.HijoDMaite
- Think of all the things she isn't telling you.cannonball1978
- y! and be paranoid:D really don't do that.it's the self-control what keeps us away from such situations. if she wants to lose that there is a reason. find it.sted
- sebastian cares so much then he can keep her, you don't want to be stuck playing daddy while she has already moved on to the next sucker in line. sorry maquitoterry_cloth
- Having some strange bloke I'd never met wake me up in my own house would be quite enough for me. Eject her. Fast.Continuity
- Daaayum son, that's heavy shit. She deffo has a problem, that's what 16 year-olds do once or twice and then stop. Try help her but don't let this be a part ofProjectile
- your life. Maybe getting kicked out will be the wake up call she needs. Tell her you love her and wish it didn't have to be this way but tough love is neededProjectile
- yo dude, don't kick her out - she needs you now.mekk
- Fuck what she needs, she's got Sebastianterry_cloth